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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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why is it ,they see your age n think you passed it what is better than n intimate meet no matter what age u are .i had a young one saying is gross i give him a good answer ..

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By *iplayer   premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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well said that man

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By *deviantx-   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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It bears no significance at all to me, just so long as it's of the legal type.

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By *atiscuming   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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i like cock of any age do like mature though as seem more kinky

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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the best part is the are the young guys that query the age ,some of them think they are the only horny guys about hahaha how wrong they are

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By *.London   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I've met a lot of guys MUCH younger than I am. And I've only occasionally had anyone that didn't like the idea of being with a (much) older guy...

I always respect stated age limits, of course.

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By *orchlight  (M)  over a year ago

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I think condition is much more important than age : )

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By *sunamiwarrior   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I often find the criteria for meeting (men and women/ gay and hetero) when written down online often has a lot of exclusions which would never apply in the real world.

Meet only ages 30 to 40. So a 41 year old who looks 30?

No shorter than 5’ 11”. So 5’ 10” no good?

Cut/ uncut. Is this our first thought when we meet?

I cruise. When you meet in the real world age is not an issue because you don’t know each other’s ages. A smile, a twinkle in the eye, a nice body or great personality are the things which attract.

I’ve had many more meets as I’ve grown older although that could be attributed to having more free time

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*ordic-knight By *ordic-knight   premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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"I often find the criteria for meeting (men and women/ gay and hetero) when written down online often has a lot of exclusions which would never apply in the real world.

Meet only ages 30 to 40. So a 41 year old who looks 30?

No shorter than 5’ 11”. So 5’ 10” no good?

Cut/ uncut. Is this our first thought when we meet?

I know exactly where you are coming from TW. I am guilty of putting certain restrictions on who I will meet but they are guidelines and not set in stone. Also I suppose my ultimate aim is for a LTR but I'm quite happy to have one-offs unless they are absolutely awful.

I cruise. When you meet in the real world age is not an issue because you don’t know each other’s ages. A smile, a twinkle in the eye, a nice body or great personality are the things which attract.

I’ve had many more meets as I’ve grown older although that could be attributed to having more free time "

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"I often find the criteria for meeting (men and women/ gay and hetero) when written down online often has a lot of exclusions which would never apply in the real world.

Meet only ages 30 to 40. So a 41 year old who looks 30?

No shorter than 5’ 11”. So 5’ 10” no good?

Cut/ uncut. Is this our first thought when we meet?

I know exactly where you are coming from TW. I am guilty of putting certain restrictions on who I will meet but they are guidelines and not set in stone. Also I suppose my ultimate aim is for a LTR but I'm quite happy to have one-offs unless they are absolutely awful.

I cruise. When you meet in the real world age is not an issue because you don’t know each other’s ages. A smile, a twinkle in the eye, a nice body or great personality are the things which attract.

I’ve had many more meets as I’ve grown older although that could be attributed to having more free time "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I prefer older guys and have more of an attraction towards them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I don't mind age at all, as long as the other half is sane and treats me nicely. It is better to be treated like a prince than focus on age lol

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By *undragon  (M)  over a year ago

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I don't have a problem at all. If guys are honest on their profile about the age group of men they would like to meet then I totally respect that and move on when looking for a meeting.

If somebody contacts me, I assume its because they have read my profile and regardless of my age want to meet. I do ,when they make first contact, usually tell them a bit about me, my likes/dislikes, body and age. If they are still interested fine. If not a simple "thanks but no thanks" is all I ask.

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By *limsubguy  (M) 43 weeks ago

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i have love for the older man,older the better

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By  *enior 74    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 43 weeks ago

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I've not had any problems with age difference there are plenty of young guys that prefer much older men

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By *livebi69   profile verified by photo (M) 43 weeks ago

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Age is only a number, had plenty of fun with older and younger. My personal preference is definitely older, would love to spend some serious time with a much older guy

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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago

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I think some guys when theye look at your age automatically assume,fat,ugly,and decrepit.

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By *inger   profile verified by photo (M) 43 weeks ago

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"I think some guys when theye look at your age automatically assume,fat,ugly,and decrepit."

True words! But we're not are we

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By *amesboy40   profile verified by photo (M) 43 weeks ago

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I’m retired and because of my free time, I have never been fitter.

I take all ages and all types.

If I go to the gay sauna I never say no!

I indulge in all forms of sex, except bareback.

I have offers from all ages,

Be open minded, and open mouthed and arse!

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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago

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"I think some guys when theye look at your age automatically assume,fat,ugly,and decrepit.

True words! But we're not are we "

my dear Ringer u are right as u are mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago

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I had my first sexual experience with a much older man ( I was 19 he must have been well into his fifties), and frankly I've been chasing older guys ever since. I'm clocking on myself theses days and the pool is getting smaller, but still give me an older man than young anyday

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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago

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Yes i think condition is more important than age, when I was 18 I had a guy that was about 65+ I bet him that if I lost at a game of pool that I'd give him a blowjob. I lost, and went to his where I fulfilled my end of the bet. And let him fuck me too. It was pretty hot being used by a much older man

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By  *ingeslut    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 43 weeks ago

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"I’m retired and because of my free time, I have never been fitter.

I take all ages and all types.

If I go to the gay sauna I never say no!

I indulge in all forms of sex, except bareback.

I have offers from all ages,

Be open minded, and open mouthed and arse!"

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*ordic-knight By *ordic-knight   premium paying member (M) 43 weeks ago

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"I think some guys when theye look at your age automatically assume,fat,ugly,and decrepit."

True but I've still had some repeat meets from young lads. Lol

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*ordic-knight By *ordic-knight   premium paying member (M) 43 weeks ago

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Some younger guys prefer older and vice versa. If its just sex there is no problem as long as both parties are happy. Some years ago I had a live-in boyfriend for nearly a year. At the time I was 46 and he was 20. No problem at all in the bedroom. That side of our relationship was great. However we did struggle a bit otherwise. In many ways it was like having a naughty, unyidy child in the house.

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*ohnfox12 By *ohnfox12   profile verified by photo (M) 43 weeks ago

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Yes I like older men 60 and over they know what they want and dont play mind games

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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago

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in my case i preffer yonger guys n have to be tops i have not found any older than me yet altho they are about but unfortunatelly we are of the same trait

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By *erbyboi83  (M) 43 weeks ago

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I prefer older guys. Young guys and guys my age just don't do it for me. Horny older guys turn me on!

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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago

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"why is it ,they see your age n think you passed it what is better than n intimate meet no matter what age u are .i had a young one saying is gross i give him a good answer .. "

But you want no one over 50...

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By *115   profile verified by photo (M) 43 weeks ago

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In my case usually even don't look on profiles bellow 40 even somebody wink to me. I like daddies over 50 with no age limit. I had last time guy 78 years old and hope I will find even older

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By *adseeded   profile verified by photo (M) 43 weeks ago

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Personally I do not find young looking guys that attractive, but I would not say never to a guy around my own age. I think that as long as both partners are willing then the age is irrelevant. Better to judge them as a person than to judge them as an age. I've had my fair share of older men being both terrible in bed and amazing so there is no way older means better

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*oredEric By *oredEric  (M) 43 weeks ago

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I see some very pretty boys from the local university, they are really femme and camp, and they are utterly gorgeous, I could eat one up! They are so lucky to be able to express themselves and be who they are and be happy in their skins. Pretty gorgeous sexy young me, at that age I had to hide every last vestige for fear of a fatal kicking, and that was just my family let alone the wider community in Hull, sadly the attractions of a middle aged tranny are not great for the average gorgeous young gay lad, more's the pity. I just take some pleasure from looking and being happy for them.

I was in my local charity shop and this blonde young man came in , he was mincing and prancing about, his mum and gran in tow, they were all happy, the staff were fine, apart from one I kicked to make him stop, and it was lovely to see him just being himself.

Oh for a time machine in 1980 to have skipped through to now, my life would be very different without all those years of denial, self hate, and hiding behind weight and idiotic manly pursuits, I was so manly it's a wonder I didn't go full circle and become one of those Tom of Finland types.

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By *ewcocol  (M) 43 weeks ago

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The two emotions you feel when you see the young guys you should have been, and wanted to meet.

Time machines ......

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*oredEric By *oredEric  (M) 43 weeks ago

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"The two emotions you feel when you see the young guys you should have been, and wanted to meet.

Time machines ...... "

Very true, but times were very different then, anything other than the approved straight lifestyle was dangerous.

I tried it on with a friend one drunken night, after a kiss lasting about 2.44 seconds he became very straight and that was the end of that, luckily he kept quiet about it.

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By *cousedpw   profile verified by photo (M) 43 weeks ago

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"Personally I do not find young looking guys that attractive, but I would not say never to a guy around my own age. I think that as long as both partners are willing then the age is irrelevant. Better to judge them as a person than to judge them as an age. I've had my fair share of older men being both terrible in bed and amazing so there is no way older means better "

I agree with you. I've had great sex with all ages, but I'm attracted to guys 35+ more than younger guys. Even so there are always exceptions.

That said, I don't think love takes a blind bit of notice about age.

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By *aravaggio  (M) 43 weeks ago

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With me, its not a case of preferring older to younger, its a case of being repulsed at the thought of younger ....... no appeal whatsoever, a complete turn-off. A shrink would have a field day with me, no doubt ....

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By *2014   profile verified by photo (M) 43 weeks ago

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We do! Busman's holiday for us shrinks on here with guys like you around. Findings will eventually be published by Sidney Uni. of course.

D2004 et al.

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By *2014   profile verified by photo (M) 43 weeks ago

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Whoops, I lied about my age again.

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By *inger   profile verified by photo (M) 43 weeks ago

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"I think some guys when theye look at your age automatically assume,fat,ugly,and decrepit.

True words! But we're not are we my dear Ringer u are right as u are mmmmm "

Your just a tart! But a nice tart

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By *ontius  (M) 42 weeks ago

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I am definitely with the group that prefers older guys - nothing better than an older guy who knows what he wants to do with my arse, then doing it

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By *ebelmeltwo   profile verified by photo (M) 42 weeks ago

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hi all older guy her i get messages from younger wanting to meet but want paying for sex never paid for it and not going to start anyone had the same

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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago

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"hi all older guy her i get messages from younger wanting to meet but want paying for sex never paid for it and not going to start anyone had the same "

I have had younger guys showing me an interest, then asking for money.

I have reported a few, & their profiles are usually removed, from the site.

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By *ebelmeltwo   profile verified by photo (M) 42 weeks ago

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i always think sex should be given freely without any payment

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By *cousedpw   profile verified by photo (M) 42 weeks ago

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"i always think sex should be given freely without any payment "

I find nothing wrong with it. I've had guys on here, and even moreso on Fab, who have said they wanted money. I just politely decline. I don't report them, but warn them it's against the rules.

I think they fulfil a need. If there was no demand there woule be no supply.

There's plenty of sex available without having to pay for it, but there are still men and women who prefer to pay.

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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago

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"i always think sex should be given freely without any payment

I find nothing wrong with it. I've had guys on here, and even moreso on Fab, who have said they wanted money. I just politely decline. I don't report them, but warn them it's against the rules.

I think they fulfil a need. If there was no demand there woule be no supply.

There's plenty of sex available without having to pay for it, but there are still men and women who prefer to pay."

Shut up !

IOU a fiver already Mr

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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago

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I agree with the last comment. I have never and will never pay for sex when so much is offered freely I have been approached by many twinks, mostly very toned students, who are really looking for a way of earning a few extra quid. Although I understand the attraction it goes against my principles. There is a difference between professional escorts who provide a required service and young guys trying to make a few extra bucks.

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"I agree with the last comment. I have never and will never pay for sex when so much is offered freely I have been approached by many twinks, mostly very toned students, who are really looking for a way of earning a few extra quid. Although I understand the attraction it goes against my principles. There is a difference between professional escorts who provide a required service and young guys trying to make a few extra bucks."

It could be that they are also just trying to survive.

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"I agree with the last comment. I have never and will never pay for sex when so much is offered freely I have been approached by many twinks, mostly very toned students, who are really looking for a way of earning a few extra quid. Although I understand the attraction it goes against my principles. There is a difference between professional escorts who provide a required service and young guys trying to make a few extra bucks."

I'm not sure there's much of a difference really. A lot of escorts are part time. They supplement their income by doing escort work.

There's always been a fair few students who pay there way through Uni by selling sex.

I see no harm in them keeping their student debt down in this way.

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"I agree with the last comment. I have never and will never pay for sex when so much is offered freely I have been approached by many twinks, mostly very toned students, who are really looking for a way of earning a few extra quid. Although I understand the attraction it goes against my principles. There is a difference between professional escorts who provide a required service and young guys trying to make a few extra bucks.

I'm not sure there's much of a difference really. A lot of escorts are part time. They supplement their income by doing escort work.

There's always been a fair few students who pay there way through Uni by selling sex.

I see no harm in them keeping their student debt down in this way."

Well said. While many students might not be proud of what they do in many cases they do it as a means to an end.

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By *ovesrings  (M) 42 weeks ago

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I would pay , I prefer to pay , I like it that I can say what I want and they tell me the cost , I can then take the deal or leave it

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By *aravaggio  (M) 42 weeks ago

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You guys who pay for sex ..... doesn't it concern you that you're having sex with someone who is just going through the motions, and has doesn't care a jot about their own enjoyment? ......... its a bit like being married ......

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"You guys who pay for sex ..... doesn't it concern you that you're having sex with someone who is just going through the motions, and has doesn't care a jot about their own enjoyment? ......... its a bit like being married ...... "

But only a one of payment. Not bled dry for life.

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"You guys who pay for sex ..... doesn't it concern you that you're having sex with someone who is just going through the motions, and has doesn't care a jot about their own enjoyment? ......... its a bit like being married ...... "

I would suggest if you were paying someone for sex they wouldn't have a headache when you wanted sex, therefore its nothing like being married at all!

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*ordic-knight By *ordic-knight   premium paying member (M) 42 weeks ago

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I paid once as this lad proudly announced he was a rent-boy. He was very cheap and very inexperienced and, despite his pleading, I did not use his services again. On another occasion I paid for a guy's petrol to visit me. So you could say I paid for sex but he hardly made a profit.

Recently a young guy contacted me via another site, and offered me sex for money. Didn't want a lot but was desperate to pay off a few debts. I refused although I felt a bit sorry for him. I would rather it was given freely and we both enjoy it.

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"I paid once as this lad proudly announced he was a rent-boy. He was very cheap and very inexperienced and, despite his pleading, I did not use his services again. On another occasion I paid for a guy's petrol to visit me. So you could say I paid for sex but he hardly made a profit.

Recently a young guy contacted me via another site, and offered me sex for money. Didn't want a lot but was desperate to pay off a few debts. I refused although I felt a bit sorry for him. I would rather it was given freely and we both enjoy it. "

I don't regard paying for petrol as paying for sex. I've often paid part of a taxi fare. Why not?

I also got asked for money on Fab. He only wanted £10. I asked wiy and he said it was for electric. I told him to come round, gave him the cash and sent him home with no sex involved.

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"I paid once as this lad proudly announced he was a rent-boy. He was very cheap and very inexperienced and, despite his pleading, I did not use his services again. On another occasion I paid for a guy's petrol to visit me. So you could say I paid for sex but he hardly made a profit.

Recently a young guy contacted me via another site, and offered me sex for money. Didn't want a lot but was desperate to pay off a few debts. I refused although I felt a bit sorry for him. I would rather it was given freely and we both enjoy it.

I don't regard paying for petrol as paying for sex. I've often paid part of a taxi fare. Why not?

I also got asked for money on Fab. He only wanted £10. I asked wiy and he said it was for electric. I told him to come round, gave him the cash and sent him home with no sex involved."

Idid exsatly the same thing to a young student we met n i gve him the money n say good by n good luck 5 weeks later a knock at the door it was the young guy to return the money ,i could not belive it we still friend

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By *imomNeedsHead   profile verified by photo (M) 42 weeks ago

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I'm mature with cock an body of a twink still an love being sucked off constantly

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"I'm mature with cock an body of a twink still an love being sucked off constantly "

Do you suck as well?

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As long as of legal age any one can have me

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