+add as contact
"I have made some adjustments to my profile text regarding the timewasters and windup merchants on there.
I Hope this decreases or even puts anyone off contacting me who fall into that category .Also i wished that men would read my profile to learn more about me than just skipping it straight to my photos.So i have added that part into profile now near to the very top on my fabguys account .So hopefully i may start getting genuine mens more attention now since the adjustments
It's been going on for a week now and nothing but messers not even showing any effort or willingness to meet and i got fed up with it"
Hopefully you have more luck than me with your recent profile adjustments. I’ve tried what I can to make it extremely clear exactly who I’d be willing to meet, without cutting down on all the info and warnings to time wasters. (my main profile description is the same on both sites). My most recent measure is to update my status with info about the exact kinda guy I’m into, so at least on fabguys people can see my status before even visiting my profile. So far I haven’t had much luck with the recent changes, I’ve had even older guys than usual (like way outside my age range kinda guys) viewing my profile on here (which I bet is partly due to recently verifying my profile to contribute to the forums) and on Fabguys I had a message earlier today from someone who smokes, even when I’ve made it blantantly obvious that I won’t meet smokers.
Yes I admit that my profile is rather excessive, but it covers all the key details about me, what I like, my turn ons/offs, what I look for when viewing other people’s profiles etc so it’s all relevant and so guys can get an idea about me without me having to constantly write the same things over and over again in messages. No matter how much I tweak my profile to make it easier to read and to get my main points across, there’s only so much I can do, the rest of the misunderstandings lie with the lazy illiterate dimwits who can’t be bothered to read. The guys who want people to read their profiles should especially practice what they preach and read the profiles they’re visiting, otherwise they’re just hypocrites and no better than the illiterate morons.
I ended up deciding to mercilessly block anyone who either goes my profile or tries contacting me that aren’t my ideal type or who obviously hasn’t read my profile. It’s harsh, I know, but it’s one of the only options I have left.
Anyway, enough about my profile and my approach. Back to the thread topic. Yeah I find fabguys to be more active and I’m more likely to receive contact from other guys on there, but most of them who contact are either illiterate or a time waster, whilst on here I mainly just seem to get illiterate old geezers (I don’t mean that all the old guys on here are like that, just a lot of the ones who visit my profile).