+add as contact
Some people are just plain scared too, you must take that into account, I had one guy texting me and all the rest of it, he even came to my flat, to my gloryhole, I tell him to drop his pants and next thing he bolts out of the door and runs off.
I thought wtf? But he did text me 5 mins later and said he was sorry but got scared/cold feet, he was a genuine married curious 1st time ever at a gloryhole and just got spooked for whatever reason.
I think a lot of people really want to do something with another man, talk about it, fantasize about it, but after they cum they get what I call after cum guilt, and either delete the account, or go silent.