"I’ve been seeing a guy regularly for 3/4 years, we get together, have incredible sex, lay together, hold each other passionately, shower, drink coffee and have a cig.
He’s not a friend, as I couldn’t call him in a time of crisis
He’s not my boyfriend, as he’s committed to someone else.
He’s not a buddy, as we’ve never drank beer together or hung out with other guys.
He’s not just a “meet”, because it means more than that.
So what should I call him?
A sex mate.
You have the knack of hitting the nail on the head.
So you have to drink beer and hang out with other guys to have a buddy. That's a new definition to me.
Well we all live and learn."