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It is interesting, the comments about prostate problems in this and another thread.
I won't go into details but a prostate problem meant I had 3 cystoscopys and yet nothing was really identified as the problem. Because of what was happening when I fucked, I felt I had to give it up and for a long time didn't do anything but bj's for others, then started being fucked. From vers to now only bttm.
I often look at men in day to day life or the pics on here and think, hmmmmmm... I'd love to...
18 years later though, I don't know if the problem has resolved itself or is still there. If it is still there, it seems to be better than it was but I cannot take the risk by fucking someone.
So, hay ho! I am now a bttm. It is very annoying, fancying men who turn out to be bttm and not being able to do anything with them. I agree with the other respondents, finding a top is difficult. I would love to be able to cum from a bj or flip flop or...... My problem is not getting or keeping hard so differs from others on this list.
Such is life.............