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Are your sexual encounters 'emotional'?

By *eyley  (M)  over a year ago

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Are you a fuck 'em and leave them type that will admit that on occasions you needed to get relief from a worthless random guy who you are face fucking with vigour, mainly because you want to get to the Doner Kebab shop before it closes.

Or on reflection, you note that encounters with random strangers including the one at the back of the refuse incinerator plant could have easily have ended with a marriage proposal and a relocation to Peru with your new found soul mate who particularly nice because he handed you a tissue to clean up after a successful encounter. ....that's how you felt at the moment of your climax?

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By *ariousArtists  (M)  over a year ago

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For me, I’m currently single. I think about sex like most guys a lot of the time. But I think about different experiences. Sometimes I literally just want to fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy and that’s it. Other times I crave something more substantial, something more tangible. There have been times when I’ve met a guy and after about 15/20 mins of sex, we’ve spooned in bed for 2 hours. Which actually felt better than the actual sex.

I think sometimes my physical needs are getting in the way of settling down and meeting an amazing guy to share our lives together. Getting there though.

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By *j67  (M)  over a year ago

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Purely physical for me. It's all about the sex and the pleasure that comes with it

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By *ayMan007   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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"Purely physical for me. It's all about the sex and the pleasure that comes with it"

Same here! It's just cock I want inside me.

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*hris51234 By *hris51234   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Personally i think it depends on the situation, if its a one off then it is just for sexual gratification then thats all it is, if it's a more regular basis i think it's possible to hope and want for it to develop into something more.

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By *heoman   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Most of the time they are just meets but on that odd occasion when you meet someone for a second or third time emotion can start to creep in. I had the pleasure of meeting a guy from this site on several occasions and it would be true to say that I started to have feelings for him, I understand having spoken to him since that he felt something too.

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*ordic-knight By *ordic-knight   premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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When I was younger and the hormones were raging I had quite a few rather mechanical and meaningless meets for sex. Gradually I BEGAN TO LOOK FOR MORE AND I've mostly felt as if I am 'making love' rather than just having sex even though I know that I will probably never meet that guy again. I suppose I live in hope that I will meet a regular 'friend with benefits' although I'm not going to hold my breath. I've had a couple of longish term relationships with guys in the past.

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By *dge73   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I agree one offs are just about the sex but if you do hit it off and meet a bit more reguliar emotions can take over a bit and its a bit more intense when you do meet up xx

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By *lain51   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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With one or two of my regular contacts I really do feel like I am making love rather than just having sex. It is a wonderful sensation, like being 16 again!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I really enjoy a one off meet as It adds to the adventure.Have only ever had more than one off with a couple of guys and that didn't last for too long. For me it's more about the physical sex rather than any emotional attachment,although I can appreciate sex can be better with someone regular.

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By *otoned  (M)  over a year ago

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Wham bam, cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Always about the sexual sensation, never any emotional feelings involved. Just the thought of having those kind of emotions for a man is a turn-off.

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago

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Had an eleven year affair with an older married man;it started with a toilet wank, but when I became a regular day time visitor to his home emotion soon became an important part of our relationship, and certainly led to very enjoyable sex, that in turn became making love rather than just fucking.

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago

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The way I look at it is, if there on this site looking for a relationship. then it's a wear your heart on your sleeve, and being truthful.

Can a relationship blossom on these kind of sites. I'd say no.

I've struck up a friendship with a couple of guys from this site. even if we haven't met for some time. We have been there when a shoulder has been needed to lean on.

That leads me to my partner who has had a sudden illness. won't go into detail. other than she has been given a few months left to live, I have had chats with the guys. and consoled each other by helping them and myself through our loses and sad times respectively.

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By *nderwearlover  (M) 3 weeks ago

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I really hate it when a guy cums and just wanders off without another word said. kinda leaves me feeling cold/used and worthless.

I also hate it when a guys goes straight for my cock without any other touching.

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By *atinesque  (M) 3 weeks ago

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Sometimes, strings attach themselves while we're not looking!

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*avinialips By *avinialips   profile verified by photo (TV/TS/CD) 3 weeks ago

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I'm still in touch with my first encounter from here. We message each other regularly. Unfortunately both of us have gone through some really tough times but we've been there for each other so we are good friends now.We dont see each other at all but I know I can message him when I need to offload my thoughts

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*ve1966 By *ve1966  (TV/TS/CD) 3 weeks ago

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I met my partner on here and we have been together 6 years now

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By (user no longer on site) 1 week ago

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My best ones have become emotional; cum and go is ok when you need to get rid of pent up lust, but it's so much better if I can connect emotionally on subsequent visits.

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