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(M) 44 weeks ago
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I know what you mean. The most pleasant part of daily sexual life, for me, is achieved by NOT having an orgasm.
The longest I've gone without an orgasm was around 5-6 months. What that effectively gave me was day after day after day of masturbational, erotic enjoyment, because I left the "Horny" switch in the "On" position for those months, because I left the "Orgasm" switch in the "Off" position, deliberately.
It involved wanking right up to the edge of coming and then letting it all stop...time after time after time, every day. It's a great way to live daily life and a wonderful way of celebrating being a man.
I don't think it would be the choice of most, here, but...who knows? Others might say that we deprive ourselves, in so doing, of the best part of sexual feelings and satisfaction.
I, instead, say that we are the ones getting the best of our sexual feelings, all day, every day. When an orgasm unintentionally happens...immediately after that, our "horniness" switches off and that can be a real annoyance.
I'd sooner stay horny and keep the pleasure going - not just for one night - but, for weeks or months.