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By *arriedsteve   profile verified by photo (M) 3 weeks ago

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I am now 50 and have developed massive bi curious urges.

I have no idea why.

I really want to try m2m fun, in particular cock worshipping, fondling, touching and sucking.

I have tried to ignore it but it always returns.

But i am so bloody nervous too.

I ignore this site for ages but the desire to revisit gets stronger.

Why the hell is this happening and any tips on how to help

Thanks

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By *atinesque  (M) 3 weeks ago

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You're horny for hands-on, mouth-on action with penises and you're in the right place. Find equally nervous guys and just ask them to contact you, reminding them of how sensitive and hesitant you are.

Apart from one or two, here, it's a good bunch...somebody will respond to you, and help.

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By *arriedsteve   profile verified by photo (M) 3 weeks ago

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Thank you.

I am horny for hands on and mouth on fun.

I just am so nervous and have no idea why the urges have appeared

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By *atinesque  (M) 3 weeks ago

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It doesn't mean you're gay, either, come to think of it...it means you like / love penises and that's not really the same thing. Enjoy, and refuse to label yourself. Also...2020 will be a nice year for you, I suspect.

Happy New Penises!

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By *arriedsteve   profile verified by photo (M) 3 weeks ago

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I do not think i am a gay.

I have a wife and 2 grown up sons.

But i do have the urge to try worshipping another guys cock and making him cum.

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By *astesnice  (M) 3 weeks ago

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Please read my profile as I am exactly the same! Don't like guys but need to try sucking a nice clean cock off

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By *eros54  (M) 3 weeks ago

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Generally, men are easily aroused and even minimal titillation can get them aroused. A photo, stocking tops, cleavage and to some a bulge in the trouser department or a cock.

I don’t think any of it has much to do with sexuality/gender/etc ... just men being horny!

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By *uzisub   profile verified by photo (TV/TS/CD) 3 weeks ago

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I found I was turned on wearing lingerie and stockings. This changed with me wanting to try sucking a cock. I eventually achieved this,dressed in my lingerie I gave oral to completion.

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*nterestingtimes2 By *nterestingtimes2  (M) 3 weeks ago

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"I am now 50 and have developed massive bi curious urges.

I have no idea why.

I really want to try m2m fun, in particular cock worshipping, fondling, touching and sucking.

I have tried to ignore it but it always returns.

But i am so bloody nervous too.

I ignore this site for ages but the desire to revisit gets stronger.

Why the hell is this happening and any tips on how to help

Thanks"

I struggle to work this out the site says you are 53 your profile says you are 45 but text above says 50 ... you cannot have been on here 8 years and done nothing??? Your pics look great I would willingly share the cost of a hotel if we were compatible and timings matched, PM me if interested in a phone call

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By *tm4u2use   profile verified by photo (M) 3 weeks ago

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Most of us love guys cocks always nervous first time although I have had lots of cock still get dry throat and pre cum before a meet. Probably 75% of guys want to suck cocks so go for it I love pleasing a guy

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By *eedude   profile verified by photo (M) 3 weeks ago

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This, so much this, sometimes it is embarrassing especially in the company of females

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By *arriedsteve   profile verified by photo (M) 3 weeks ago

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I guess you may be right.

I often feel horny.

It is just strange that i now find naked men and cock pics turn me on when they never did when i was younget

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By *arriedsteve   profile verified by photo (M) 3 weeks ago

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"Please read my profile as I am exactly the same! Don't like guys but need to try sucking a nice clean cock off"

I can see from your profile you do seem just like me

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By *oondog   profile verified by photo (M) 3 weeks ago

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Give it a go you won't look back. There are lots of nice cocks around Hertfordshire just get in touch if you want to experiment on mine lol

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By *ondonmeets  (M) 3 weeks ago

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Give it a go, you will love it. Im dying for one right now

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By *arriedsteve   profile verified by photo (M) 3 weeks ago

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Lol

Thanks

Are there really lots ?

I have no idea where to find them

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By *arriedsteve   profile verified by photo (M) 3 weeks ago

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"Give it a go, you will love it. Im dying for one right now"

Will i really?

I hope so.

But am so nervous

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*odSheffield By  *odSheffield    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 3 weeks ago

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I can honestly say, sexually it is the best thing I ever did. The best sex of my life has been with other guys. Nerves are normal because you think you are doing something "forbidden" - guilt after the event is also normal because of the conditioning we have all gone through but men having sex with other men is quite normal - it has been going on for thousands of years.

The ancient Greeks positively encouraged it for both men and women, it was normal in Roman times until Christianity got a hold.

I went through the nervous and guilty stages but now I thoroughly enjoy it. I am still in the closet and will remain so, as I suspect the majority on here will do. Please try it - don't have any regrets when you are too old to do anything about it. Enjoy yourself.

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By  *xLedZepxx2    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 3 weeks ago

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"Give it a go, you will love it. Im dying for one right now

Will i really?

I hope so.

But am so nervous"

What are you actually nervous of? Try it. if you like it all's good, if you don't, there's no shame, it's just sex or a few mild sexual acts.

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By *am42  (M) 3 weeks ago

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go for it buddy. lose your inhibitions. I have had the best and most sex of my life over the past few years. even went to the sauna last week for the first time ever. best £15 I have ever spent. left after 4 hours exhausted

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By *onesmustang650  (M) 3 weeks ago

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It’s the best thing I’ve done for a long time the best blow jobs by far are given by guys women have nothing on it

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By *arried cock lover  (M) 3 weeks ago

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Pussy is fine but it'll never be better than cock,anyway why should we have to choose one over the other? If you want some cock make it happen. You'll be happier afterwards.

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By *ariousArtists  (M) 3 weeks ago

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Love my GF, love sex with her. She has a great body, great ass, great tits and a pretty good pussy.

But the big problem, is now and again (well, quite often) I just really want a guy to drill my ass.

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By *dinthewoods69   profile verified by photo (TV/TS/CD) 3 weeks ago

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Could you not also suggest strap on to the gf you might get best of both

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By  *xLedZepxx2    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M) 3 weeks ago

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I don’t think any of it has much to do with sexuality/gender/etc ... just men being horny! "

I disagree, figures suggest that up to 80% of women are either gay or bisexual and it is especially common in younger women, so apparently not just men being horny. Of coarse sexuality has something to do with it, real straight men would just watch porn and have a wank if they were horny and lacking female company.

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*etropolis By *etropolis   profile verified by photo (M) 3 weeks ago

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Sexuality has everything to do with it

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By *arriedsteve   profile verified by photo (M) 2 weeks ago

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Thank you for all the messages of support i have recieved both in this forum and by private messages

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*itstop2 By *itstop2   profile verified by photo (M) 2 weeks ago

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"Thank you for all the messages of support i have recieved both in this forum and by private messages"

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By *pence  (M) 2 weeks ago

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we were all nervous on our first time. just do it! dont deny yourself the fun and enjoyment.

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By *ormat  (M) 2 weeks ago

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I agree. It took me awhile to get my nerve up, but I'm glad I did. I met a few guys in XXX Theatres (in the US) several times. It was less threatening because there were other people around in case of some sort of problem. I learned to just relax a bit and go with it.

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By *eedude   profile verified by photo (M) 2 weeks ago

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There Is nothing wrong with these urges, except the pressures of what society tells you you should be, as other have said we were all nervous once, also as other have said give it a go, by now I am guessing you may have already done so, shame you live so far away from me would be happy to help.

Just the other year I 'came out' to friends about being Bi, and I was so nervous, simple fact is they just said 'ok' and shrugged it off, it has never been mentioned again, mind you I have been very in active over the past year or two, hope you find someone to help you lose the inhibitions

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