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IS THIS A "G A Y" SITE?????

By *lue knight

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I ahve noticed recently that there appears to be a number of couples Male and Female) who have joined this site.

Now whilst it says clearly this is for gay men, bi men or maybe curious I had no idea it was also open for couples? I thought the sister site Dogging.co.uk was for couples or again have I read this wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

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Is it a gay site? that explains why ive been sucking cock and some lad used my bottom to get out his youth full exuberance while his gf went back to uni.

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

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well this a gay site, well i never, i would never of thought it, im shocked and flabbergasted!!!

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By *r rugger passive

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Shocking.................... ;o)

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By *lue knight

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then read the first post, we have had this discussion before. We require this site for men, not women as they can join the dogging site if they want men.

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By *lue knight

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the last thread on this subject was WOMEN ON THE SITE

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By *r rugger passive

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I agree with you Mr BK, the 'sister' site is there for a reason :o)

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By *ean

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Perhaps there are some women who don't like the idea of being on a site with DOG in the title...or they want to see the inside of Mr RP's little cottage...lol

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By *auli4sex

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Is it ok for me to be on this site dearest Blueknight? ............(Miss) Pauli xxxxxx

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By *lue knight

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darling Pauli, you are in the tv/cd/ section and no one has a problem with you "girls" its when those woman who are "fully women" appear on the site. I have noticed recently though Pauli that there appears to be some women on here with their husbands/boyfriends and as others have stated before the front page does say gay men/bi/or curious.

As far as I can gather this site was set up for those mentioned as the dogging site is for couples. There was a thread on here many weeks (40 weeks) ago whereby And B said the only woman on here should be SJ and who am I to disagree with him.

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By *abbitt

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I would treat Pauli like a proper lady.Forget her birthday and take her for granted.

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By *iriyanibill

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Im gay, was married could just about perform but only by thinking of cocks. Of course some lurkers here are going to be ladies with all their genitals boobs and stuff. That means my cock pics have ben seen by a lady. I am not shocked or worried. But if I was to invite someone round and they were female it would be different! Some bu guys like to have a threesome with another guy and their misses, why not?

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By *lue knight

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that is not what others and myself are saying. I was informed by the site and its on the front page that this site was started for Gay men.

There is another sister site called dogging.co.uk which is for couples and this subject was debated in the forum some weeks ago.

I have nothing against woman, I was married to one but I am gay and its men that I wish to look at, chat to and meet, not women. If I was a guy looking for women or a woman looking for a guy or a married couple then I would look up people on the dogging site.

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By *ean

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Mr BK, perhaps they are Gay women...they've got their Lumberjack shirts and are now looking for a Chopper.

Providing they don't start putting up pictures of their "axe wounds" I don't mind.

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

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I agree with you _lue knight. It will turn me off to find a woman on here! even though I am curious I would use the sister site for that x

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By *lue knight

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its guys on here who are putting up pics of their wives, if they want to do this then the sister site is for this purpose I was informed.

I don't want to look at a "bush" I want to look at something long and thick that would put a "bush fire out not get it started!

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By *iriyanibill

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I see the point, I stand corrected. Ladygardens to the dogs!

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By *bbitch

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For the life of me I can't understand anyone getting their knickers in a twist about it. Why should it bother anyone if there's women or MF couples on this site? It seems a bit precious to whinge about it IMO.

Just my view.

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

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iim on both sites.

stop moanin about it ya grumpy old bar-stewards and just fuck awaaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

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iim on both sites.

stop moanin about it ya grumpy old bar-stewards and just fuck awaaaaaay

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By *ear2k7

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Firstly, I think the tone of the OP is a little bit pretencious there BK.

Secondly, strictly speaking, yes the site is for gay (bi or curious too!) men. However I don't particularly have a problem with bi men coming on here with their female counterparts in search of another gay/bi man for some fun. Pictures of said female may be inappropriate, debatably, but either way them just being on here wouldn't bother me. Perhaps that's because I'm bi, and thus am not repulsed by the 'fairer sex' in a sexual way.

Thirdly, given this number will be a small proportion of the members, it certainly shouldn't hinder your perusal of fine cock. You don't have to look at the pictures or profiles, and if you do stumble over one, write it off and move on.

Fourthly, the 'sister site' is available, yes. But that is for 'dogging' which, whether exclusively true or not, is view as an activity in the open (most notably a car park) with numerous people watching/joining in. It's very rare to hear a ménage a trois in the home be described as dogging. This likely puts people off using said site.

Finally, as the above poster mentioned - relax, and enjoy the conversation and cock fun you do get from this site!

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By *ev_uk_7171

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could not have put it better "bear" some people really do need to take a chill pill :)

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By *lue knight

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please tell me where I have written "being replused by the fairer sex", you cannot because I have not said that.

I just wish you guys read what people put rather than assuming what you might think they have written.

I was asked in a private message why were there female pictures on this site when its a gay site that is why I started the thread.

This site is called cottaging, but does everyone on here meet in a cottage, I don't think so other wise there would be more cottages open. So your answer that people might be put off by the dogging site does simply not stand up and dogging does not only include car parks it includes many places to have sex.

Yes there are bi men on here but they are looking for men not women. As for our "lady" friends they also are looking for men but since they are within the grouping of "gay men" the site applies to them.

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By *nobjockeyuk

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Methinks "some" people just like an argument for the sake of it - and not for the first time!

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By *rse rider (M) 28 weeks ago

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Attention is attention how ever you get it.

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By *r rugger passive

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Be fair though, the opinion is warranted.

I for one didn't join this site to be amongst Women. Gay guys, Bi Guys, and Guys that like to cross dress etc...... Yes, but the not the so called 'fairer sex'.

In my opinion, I agree that there should be none on here, however, accepting that bi couples can seek other bi men. So 'he' can join and seek what 'he' wants.

But.... the Site was created for Men, and I have lifted this off of the joining page: (this site is for gay/bi/curious MEN only). With the options of describing yourself as a Gay/Bi Guy or as a TV/TS/CD.

I think this quells any further misunderstanding on which sex the site was created for.

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By *nobjockeyuk

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Fair point... but can those who object take it up with the moderators please!!!

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By *abbitt

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take it up sounds nice, i wish we could have smilies on here

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By *abbitt

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anyone actually fucked paulie on here?

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By *auli4sex

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read my feedback!! xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

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a gay site? Well bugger me!

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By *ingopuppy

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if anything, should there not be more versions of Cottaging.co.uk and Dogging.co.uk? This sites one of the best- simple, clear, and effective- especially the feedback (guys- get feedbacking!) however, I think I'm a little confused by the amount of guys on here asking things along the lines of 'who wants to sniff my wifes knickers' 'Just seen my step-daughters tits- horny' and who wants to fuck me while my wife watches' or even 'who wants to fuck my wife while i watch'maybe there's a market for Swinging.co.uk?

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By *abbitt

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u pissed as well lol, but point is u kewt which says it all

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By *lue knight

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thank you Mr RP, the trouble with a "few" on here is that they simply don't like reading subjects they don't agree with. The whole idea of a forum is that you can air subjects no matter what they are providing you do so in a civilised manner.

So KJ I shall continue to write about subjects I am others would like aired.

As I was say Mr Rugger, you Mr _ean and I know who we are talking about and may the 3 of us continue to touch the keys for many years to come.

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By *ndybasildon

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This is a man only site . Any women on here should be reported using the report profile to admin etc... and they will be removed.

Where there is a couple etc. only the man shalt have his pics on the site. ofcourse we cant stop the " come round and shag my wife comments "..

The Bi Guys might like some MMF.

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By *raggle

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Andy you just beat me to it. Can't see a problem with couples looking for bi and CDs on here as this is where most of them are. However it is definitely not in the spirit of the site, as I understand it, to have women's pics posted. With some of our sexy ladies on here they could fall foul of being too femine despite the size of their clit! :-)

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By *lue knight

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thank you Andy B for clearing this matter up that this is a MALE SITE only.

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By *pank66

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Would love to meet a guy and his wife off here for a MMF encounter.

Just go with the flow, and yes anybody who like to CD and have is wife or GF join in withe another guy then feel free to contact me.

Those who just want guys stick to guys, those like me, which love sex with men and woman and looking for men and woman tehn yes on here and on the dogging site.

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By *eorgemj

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Sorry Maam

This is a gentlemens club. No woman allowed in.

Maybe the mods who view uploaded photos to pass or reject them

Should start rejecting, without any hesitation, photos containg women, or part of !!

(chauvinistic pig) 'am not then, am nice' :o)

Georgie xxxx

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By *arlman (M) 28 weeks ago

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As in life some people say things or start threads with the express purpose of being provocative. Dont rise to the bait.

If they where that bothered about it they would complain to SJ and leave the site. Simples.

And if the site was that bothered about it they would let the photos through.

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By *raggle

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Don't think this is that provocative. Mildly surprised at the strength of feeling amongst some members but agree pretty much with what they are saying. Totally with AndyB's post. Never thought about it before now and wouldn't have done without the prod of reading this thread.

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By *lue knight

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_raggle, you are so correct about this subject matter being provocative. The reason I started the thread was because others who had written to me asked why were there woman in some of the photo shots with guys. I have told them now to do what Any B has suggested and report them.

He says this is a MAN ONLY site and if others don't like it thats their problem.

As for the people who suggest I start threads to be provocative then if they don't like what they read they can do two things, they don't have to read what is written and neither do they have to reply. But know, the same old ones come out of the woodwork time and time again. Am I bothered not one jot.

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By *eorgemj

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Seriously tho :o)

I'm bi-sexual, i know i am because i read it somewhere in my profile. I'm also a member of the sister site to this one, Dogging.

So then, that site is for that,.....yeah ok !.

Have a guess then, why i'm on this site !!!!!! Erm.. 'hint' could it be because i want to meet, chat, look and read profiles and see photos of men and men only. :o)

Am not asking for much.

Georgie xxxx

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By *raggle

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Me? I'm here for the friendly non bitchy cameraderie of brothers. Oops! Sorry wrong thread! :-)

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By *ear2k7

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It's slightly ironic that something I posted was linked out of context and used to accuse me of 'not reading'.

I said not repulsed by the 'fairer sex' (in inverts to stress this is just a saying) SEXUALLY. I did not imply that you do not like women. You are right, you did not say that. But you ARE a gay man and through your comments on here alone it's clear you do not like them sexually. Ergo my comment was valid and correct and aplicable to the debate at hand.

As I mentioned I think pictures of women aren't really appropriate, yes. But my argument is that an MF couple with a BI man looking for another M (gay or bi) is a warranted use of this site in my opinion.

About the 'dogging' and the perception of, I stated that although NOT exclusive, the view I gave was a common one, hence putting people off. Dogging is also for a lot of straight people/couples - what if as stated prior, they are just looking for another gay/bi male for some fun? Easier to find on here than on there I'd imagine - or atleast perceived to be easier.

My post was about possible real reasons behind the 'culprits' being on here (which was the question of the OP, that, yes, I read). I also stated my opinion that I don't see an issue with MF couples being on here when looking for a gay/bi male. If it's just a woman then yes, that's wrong, clearly. Or if they are looking for women/straight guys then yes, that too is wrong.

Look at it this way - this site is for gay/bi/curious men to chat and arrange meets. So what if one of those bi/curious men bring their wife/girlfriend along for (a) reassurance and (b) to arrange an MMF with two bi Ms?

Final note: BK if you are going to accuse someone of something in such a condescening, deriving way, please make sure your not guilty of the same thing first.

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By *lue knight

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Georgie, I could not have summed it up better than you have.

This site is for Gay Men (MEN ONLY) and there should be photo's of males only. As Andy B states this site should only have photo's of men.

If a guy wants to meet a bi couple thats fine, what they do behind closed doors is their affair. That is not what I am talking about, its about having photo's of women on here with men and there are a number although I gather from the private messages I have received there might be far less.

As you say Georgie you are bi and if you want a bit of the other you use the dogging site, if you want something a little more different like men (Pauli plus) then you use this site.

This discussion was not about whether your bi or gay it was about women on the site. That has now been cleared up by Andy B and if those don't like it that this is a mle only site then take it up with SJ.

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By *auli4sex

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lol _raggle - liked your concise point - very to the point. Blueknight, can you explaing "pauliplus" - i have a reputation to protect xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *auli4sex

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anyway lets get back to the main point of this thread - who has fucked Pauli (or who wants to) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *oddy99 (M) 28 weeks ago

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Surely everyone wants to? Trouble is, some of us live too far away!

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By *iriyanibill

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OK I dont watch straight porn, I dont like lady bits, but I promise that if I do come across pictures of ladygardens on this site, I'll just ignore them.

As long as the majority of pics are sexy chaps waving their willies around I don't care. And there are plenty of real willies, not porn star waxed and plucked, but real ones attatched to human beings hopefully not saying 'suck that cock, bitch'

I like this site, and I would even if there were a few winking twats, but they should be somewhere else.

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By *lue knight

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tell me is triming your bush part of the Ladygarden slang?

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By *bbitch

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I'm gobsmacked. I'm sorry but I'm going to say this....I've read and heard about gay prejudice and intolerance towards others but I've never come across it before now, but that's the way some of the comments I've read here appear to me to be.

What is this complaint all about?..... "But this is a gay site for gay men, bisexual men and tvs/cds and women shouldn't be on here". FFS! Does it really matter if a woman comes on here and posts a profile or a pic or two? Maybe she likes gay men? Some women do.

Why should anyone feel upset or threatened by this? Does it upset their cosy view of this place in some way? Does it inhibit or prevent them from using the site to their own advantage to obtain what they want from here? I think not.

Thank God there are plenty of people around who have a more broadminded attitude towards gender and sexuality.

I say again.....does it really matter and why would anyone give a toss anyway?

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By *ear2k7

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Well said.

My point was that although pics of women is something that isn't really covered in the intent of the site, the inclusion in this 'forbidden' category of couples with a bi male looking for other bi/gay men for an MMF meet is unfair. They're effectively looking for the same type of people, using the site for the same thing, it just happens one of the persons involved is a woman. What then, really, is the issue with this?

To reiterate: one woman acting independently on this site is something open to debate based on the aim and intention of the site. A woman as a part of an MF couple looking for another gay/bi M is something, that I believe is covered in the 'spirit' of the sites intent.

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By *lue knight

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and if I was looking to buy a Bentley I would not be going to a garge selling a Lada....same thing on this site.

I merely asked a question, "why are womens photo's on this site" the answer has been given by Andy B they should not be otherwise they will be removed.

Nothing about being prejudice about gays or intolerant I am gay, I am not intolerant towards those who wish to put a frock on so why on earth do you made such a wild and bland statement like that _bbitch. If I was straight and made remarks about gays you would have every justification in saying I was prejudicial about gays. Think before you put your fingers to your keyboard next time please.

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By *ear2k7

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I believe you've misunderstood what he said - he's not talking about prejudice toward gay men, but from gay men - e.g. Gay men being prejudiced and more specifically intolerant towards women. He also said some of the posters, not specifically you.

'They shouldn't be on here' is not an answer to the question 'why are they on here?'.

As for your analogy - what if the MF couples that are being lumped with the solo Fs on here are, in fact, looking for a 'Lada', would that not make it the right 'garage'?

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By *r rugger passive

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This thread has turned rather nasty, in an attacking way and I find this tiresome.

The original point of discussion was 'is this a gay site?' and about female pictures being on here.

In view of what Andy B has said and what I have said in an earlier message, this site is for MEN ONLY, in all shapes and sizes.

I hear and understand the niceties of allowing women to seek bi men etc. But..... if anyone has difficulty understanding or even reading the words printed on the joining page which I have copied and pasted in my earlier message, maybe they should have gone to Specsavers???????

If anyone wants to suggest to SJ that Women be allowed to use the site, can I suggest that an entry be made in the 'Updates' Forum, where the suggestion can be given her consideration.

Please can we stop any further unpleasantness on this subject?

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By *ear2k7

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Again, my complaint is based on the inclusion of MF couples with a bi male seeking another bi or gay man. The F is an accessory if you like, it's the M primarily looking. Why is this an issue?

Also, yes it's intended for men only. However it's apparent that some Fs and some MF couples are on here. Clearly, some people wish to see them barred, so surely if it was such an issue, then that would be requested of SJ?

I'm not personally attacking, in all honesty. I respect other peoples opinions and they are entitled to them. As a matter of fact I enjoy a good debate with those of differing opinions more than most things. However, I do take some offence

when my or others opinions are not shown the same respect or consideration.

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By *nobjockeyuk

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Oh for GOODNESS'S SAKE!!!!!

Can we get back to swapping knitting patterns?

(And that's MR KJ to you MR BK)

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By *iltonkeynes41

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Sorry chaps have read all the posts on this and think its all rather a storm in a teacup !

I am bi sexual and hide it with good reason.

im just wondering if a gay or bisexual man went on a percieved women only site would there be such bigotry and prejudice on there ?

I would like to think not.

Why cant we all just live and let live ?

If you click on a pic you dont like move on !

Surely thats what we all do anyway ?

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By *ast15

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I love a good "mass debate" even better when everyone joins in. But going with KJ, can we just carry on knitting again - Oh can I swop my fair isle balaclava pattern for your crotcheted long john pattern?!

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By *ean

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Mr BK is correct in what he said at the very start of this thread...however I would like to say that some of the best forum posts used to be made by a couple on here (they have since left).

Many of you long time members may remember Hantsexycouple...we never actually saw his wife in his pictures, but she did go out with him when he met guys.

If men and women have something in common, then why not let them have an input?

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

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As already pointed out, this is indeed atvertised as a "men only" site but it is also advertised as a site for, amoong others, bi males so surely, by definition if bi men are welcome on site then there is going to be an interest in females as well as males!

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By *r rugger passive

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True, but then the 'Conditions' of the site should change, so if people want to change the site to be female 'friendly' then it should be put in the updates forum as a suggestion to SJ......

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

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that may well be a good idea nad while we're about it how about changing it to be a "bi" freindly site too since every time I log on my screen reminds me thatmy account is currenlty listed

as A "Gay Male" and asks me if I wish to change this to TV/TS/CD. No mention of the relitively large contingent of bi members who use the site!

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By *r rugger passive

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Make a suggestion to SJ in the Updates Forum :o)

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By *assive-rider

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Why do we have tohave a lable as long as we enjoy the company of the person we meet?

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By *ittykong

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Having read SOME of the comments on here , andas an actively & "out " gay n=man , i would think MOST BI men have the female @ home , dontthey ? so they come here looking to fuklfil their other needs ! Or am i missing the point ?

I think posssibly allowing women to use this site "unaccompanied " would lead to a LOT of BI menleaving wouldnt it ? For fear of recognition !

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By *r rugger passive

(M) 28 weeks ago

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Well said Kitty :o) That also applies to some, if not a large number of CD's too...........

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By (user no longer on site) 28 weeks ago

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If people actually used some of the time that they take to discuss whether its a gay site to actually meet up then perhaps we can start calling it a gay site, get some lovin goin guys xx

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By *bbitch

(TV/TS/CD) 28 weeks ago

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Oh dear! Was it that hard to understand the observation I made?

I don't like prejudice based on gender or sexuality. Gay people have suffered enough of it in the past, so I find it surprising and disquieting to read comments from some gay men inferring that women are not welcome here and should be reported to admin. if they are, and especially if they have the 'temerity' to post a profile and pics of themselves. Presumably this is because they're the 'wrong' gender? For goodness sake!

I find that kind of attitude totally hypocritcal. Sad even, because it's so exclusive and narrow minded. I don't imagine many women would particularly wish to join a site like this anyway.....why would they? What I totally fail to understand though is why it should cause such upset and outrage to anyone if they do. It's hardly going to change the ethos of the place, is it?

Shock, horror and spit the dummy out..."but this is a gay site", or words to that effect. How precious is that?

For the record.....I don't consider myself to be gay, in the sense that I understand the meaning of the term, so does that mean I shouldn't be on here either? But then I suppose having been born with a cock lets me off the hook, and enjoying having sex with men qualifies me.

The forum is all about debate between reasoning adults, yes?

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By *lue knight

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Yawn, yawn, yawn....................we have moved on dear or did you miss the 5.30 from Paddington?

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By *r rugger passive

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I couldn't have said it more aptly.........

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By *arah tv

(TV/TS/CD) 28 weeks ago

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i would have thought the sister site dogging.co.uk would be better for couples with a female involved as there would be more likeminded people ?

i joined this site because im gay i have no interest in women sexually , great as people just not a turn on for me hense joining this SO CALLED gay site :)

take it easy gents suck ya later xxxx

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By *lue knight

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Oh Miss Sarah Essextv, my dear this is what we have been trying to say most of the day if guys on here want a bit of bush tucker then there is a site to go to. If there are bi men on here they are hardly looking for a bush, they would be looking for a pole to swing from hard and throbbing.

That is what this site is all about, MEN wanting Men with big Dongs.........large one's, small ones any size of dongs. They are not looking for a bush....bring on the clippers dear.

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By *r rugger passive

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Oooh No Lady Gardens on here Mr BK ;o)

Just Firemen's best friends.... ;)

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By *bbitch

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Really? Maybe I'm just naiive but there was me rather hoping that if anyone was going to pick up on the points I had to make that they would have done so in a sensible and reasoned manner.

No matter.

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By *lue knight

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oh Mr Rugger, you just love it when the word "bush" is printed it sends you into a sort of heaven babe. But really I alwsy knew it was that Firemen and his helmet you were really after more so when you saw him holding his big nozzle with that very thick hose spouting from it, I watched your knees knock each other and thats something for a big girl like yourself!!

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By *arah tv

(TV/TS/CD) 28 weeks ago

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_lue knight i have read a few of your posts in the forums and you Rugger passive , and you both never fail to make me laugh , along with _ean and _ndybasildon , maybe i should post in the forum alot more regular,

as for bush tucking ,, i leave that to the has beens on that jungle program lol let them eat the juices ewww

lol thanks for the giggles ,, Miss _arah tv

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By *lue knight

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oh Miss Sarah, you are a naughty girl. Mr Rugger was just telling me about you Essex girls dancing around your handbags? well its much better that a black plastic sack dear......and in this cold weather I trust you have warm knickers on to keep your bush hot and ready just like the battery advert??

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By *arah tv

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longer longer longer lasting ? . Mr bk im yet to find a man that can last the test of time compaired to my battery operated pal from ann summers , although a tad expensive it saves me from emotional sacrifice and easy fits in the handbag i dance around LOL !!!

as for the black bag i keep that handy for some of the more "facially challanged" amongst us

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By *r rugger passive

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_bbitch...... The "nature" of the site has been discussed to an inch of it's life. You joined it as it is, as did we all......

I think if you read all of the posts on the thread, Kitty made a very valid comment, if 'Women' as nature intended join the site, how many bi-guys and/or CD's would leave the site in fear of recognition etc..???????

We are now injecting humour into it as there is nothing left to say on the matter and whilst we're on that subject....

Thank you SarahEssexTV it's lovely to be appreciated, Mr BK, _ean, myself and quite a few others, do enjoy a good discussion and most of all a good laugh when we're 'in here' :o)

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By *bbitch

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Ok Mr RuggerPassive. I don't have any problem with that :)

Yeah I must've missed the train Mr BK. I'm up to speed now though!

Hehee!

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By *lue knight

(M) 28 weeks ago

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Oh Miss Sarah, I know what you mean about "longer life batteries". Mr Rugger was only saying to me yesterday he would have to insert some new batteries into Mr _ean as he was slightly slower over the weekend.

Your much better orf dear with Miss Ann Summers as you only have to wipe, dip and spray for your battery pal, whereas if you have to go out for a bit a "bush bashing" you would have to have a full flush, be dunked in tons of asses milk, spray with wonderful smellies and then the nails etc., 7 hours later and the bastard never shows!!

I gather you can now buy plastic dicks you plug into the cigar lighter but only Bentleys have them at the moment.

I do agree with you also dear about the facially challanged, but are you sure it's not bodily challanged as well!!!

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