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It's a personal thing really, there is no right or wrong answer.
For me personally, I prefer to make love, or more specifically, i prefer someone make love to me. Making love to me implies a gentlness, and that my partner desires more than just a physical connection. Might not be the case, but the implication, or illusion of that can be enough.
It dosnt matter if it's a short notice meeting or a one off, or even a regular thing or a relationship, sex is something special to me; i'm letting another man inside me, so he can (if i was a woman) give me his child.
Personally I dont understand why some men enjoy rough fast fucking, i've had that in the past and in the end i end up feeling used and violated.
As i said, it's individual tastes, but personally, slowly being made love to through the evening is a much more beautiful experience than 10 or so minutes of pounding and thrusting.
And as for kissing, it's exactly the same thing. Although for me I dont take off a stitch unless he has given me a nice deep romantic kiss.
It's a good indicator of how into mee he is and can be a sign of his temperment in bed.