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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I've never been to a gay sauna and really want to go to one but first time nerves gets in the way, I live near the one in Brighton and hoping to go in the new year. Do you guys have any tips for newbies or fancy sharing any experiences, it'll give me more of an idea what to expect. Also, if there are any Brighton guys on here maybe we can go together.

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By *issile  (TV/TS/CD)  over a year ago

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It is nothing to worry about just go along and have fun although I think you will find they are generally busy with a lot of older guys and they will find you very attractive but if you dont want them to touch you just say no thanks if they try. Go and have a look around don't need to do anything if you do not want to.

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By *ewcocol  (M)  over a year ago

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With that fucking weapon hanging off you I'm sure you would be made very welcome at any sauna. They'd be lined up on their knees waiting for you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Thanks man, I appreciate the comment, I love the thought of random guys sucking my cock in the sauna and I'd also reciprocate. I'm also a bottom so I'd hope they'd appreciate my young smooth hole.


"With that fucking weapon hanging off you I'm sure you would be made very welcome at any sauna. They'd be lined up on their knees waiting for you. "

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"I've never been to a gay sauna and really want to go to one but first time nerves gets in the way, I live near the one in Brighton and hoping to go in the new year. Do you guys have any tips for newbies or fancy sharing any experiences, it'll give me more of an idea what to expect. Also, if there are any Brighton guys on here maybe we can go together. "

Ooooh I wish I lived nearer to Brighton, you look lovely x. We were all once newbies at something. Id say just go for it. I was nervous my first time, but now its a real treat!!

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By *eans2201   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Not in the country at the mo but happy to do a sauna together when I'm back..,

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By *azing  (M)  over a year ago

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Hi i wud luv 2 try gay sauna in notts but 1st time nerves stop me every time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Hi i wud luv 2 try gay sauna in notts but 1st time nerves stop me every time"

So many guys, seem to have that problem.

As others have said, there is nothing to worry about. Once you are through the doors, & wandering about, with a towel round your waist, you will wonder why you did not go sooner.

Just say no, if a guy approaches or touches you, & you are not interested in him.

That is always acceptable & does not cause any offence.

Tell the guy, on reception, thay is your 1st time, & they will advise you, or, show you around. No problem. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I'm trying to pluck up the courage to try a sauna in Nottingham or Mansfield and the advice on here is encouraging!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Steam in leeds is usually good, staff were friendly on my first time

If your nervous maybe go on a quiet night to familiarise yourself

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By *eans2201   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Though saunas at 'quiet' times tend to be rather depressing places imho, they just seem dead and smelly and sleazy. You need a bit of a crowd...

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*ilium By *ilium  (M)  over a year ago

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has anyone been to tropic's in Portsmouth, married guy here never been but want to go, what are the best times/days. had many meets but not at tropic's xx

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By *eans2201   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I've been two or three times, it's never been very busy but I've generally had some fun. One time I arranged to meet a lovely lad from Portsmouth uni via fab, we had a great time hanging out.

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*ilium By *ilium  (M)  over a year ago

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thanks for that, had a few meets off fab and here too

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By *urreyguy1960  (M)  over a year ago

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Hi, married guy here also. Curious about using sauna. Are all guys in public view? I really want to see guys wanking and sucking each other. Do they encourage people to watch?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Hi, married guy here also. Curious about using sauna. Are all guys in public view? I really want to see guys wanking and sucking each other. Do they encourage people to watch?"

All guys, are on public view, in most parts of gay saunas. However, guys may pair off, into private cabins, to have fun. Sometimes they leave the door open, so guys can watch them, or join them.

Sometimes see guys sucking or wanking, in the steamroom, or, other, open play areas.

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By *alVerrar  (M)  over a year ago

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are there any good ones in the north east?

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By *rian_Tees  (M)  over a year ago

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There's two that I know of in the NE, one in Sunderland and the other Newcastle. Not been to either, although I used to go to Top2Bottom in N'castle but think it's closed now. Been to the one in Carlisle fairly recently though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Hoping to visit one either this month or next. Really nervous but I am sure once there I will relax I say go for it. You want fun so just focus on that. You will make everyone there happy

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By *enboi  (M)  over a year ago

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As everyone's said - getting through the door's the hard bit. Once you're inside you'll relax and get into the swing of things lol. Happy to join in Brighton if you want?

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By *utdoorboy  (M)  over a year ago

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Go to Brighton or Swindon on Naked day and in the cinema you get to watch men together and porn at the same time!!

I would go with you if we could arrange one Tuesday or Wednesday!

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By *ohnmac40  (M)  over a year ago

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getting thru the door is hard part i was same but once i got over that it was a_azing and with a cock that size omg u will get sum action

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By *imbo1218   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Last time I went to my 'local' gay sauna I found an armed police 'lock-in' and had to wait until they said it was safe to leave!! It was thought that they were staking out a local drug dealer - but it was a little unnerving seeing police dogs and guns in the street outside! ...and I needed to get home before the wife wondered where I was!!

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By *RANK2647   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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"Last time I went to my 'local' gay sauna I found an armed police 'lock-in' and had to wait until they said it was safe to leave!! It was thought that they were staking out a local drug dealer - but it was a little unnerving seeing police dogs and guns in the street outside! ...and I needed to get home before the wife wondered where I was!! "

Did the police ever find their missing truncheon ???

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*ordic-knight By *ordic-knight   premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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"Last time I went to my 'local' gay sauna I found an armed police 'lock-in' and had to wait until they said it was safe to leave!! It was thought that they were staking out a local drug dealer - but it was a little unnerving seeing police dogs and guns in the street outside! ...and I needed to get home before the wife wondered where I was!! "

Deviating slightly that has reminded me of a similar situation. Not a sauna but a weekly gay disco in the function room of a country pub when I was about 20. Suddenly everything stopped as there was a full blown police raid for drugs although they never found any. Quite frightening as I was in the army where it was illegal to be gay. The police took everyones name but we never heard anymore.

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By *ozzer22  (M)  over a year ago

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"Go to Brighton or Swindon on Naked day and in the cinema you get to watch men together and porn at the same time!!

I would go with you if we could arrange one Tuesday or Wednesday!"

I will take you up on that offer if it still stands ?

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By *alux  (M)  over a year ago

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I would echo everything that's been said so far. It's built up so much in your mind however it's easy as walking through a door. Loved every visit been to greenhouse Darlaston and Luton, one in b'ham and Shoreditch. Never had a bad experience and mostly friendly guys

Greenhouse no naked days, TV/cd days, bear days something for everyone

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*altonBottom By *altonBottom  (M)  over a year ago

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I really wish there were some in Surrey but I think I'd have to travel to London to get to my nearest one!

Its a little scary to go alone too!

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*nterestingtimes2 By *nterestingtimes2  (M)  over a year ago

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I was seriously thinking of opening a gay sauna but don't think they are as profitable as you may think and I bet there is council police neighbors issues

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"I was seriously thinking of opening a gay sauna but don't think they are as profitable as you may think and I bet there is council police neighbors issues"

I used to work as a cleaner, in a gay sauna, before opening hours.

I do not think they are cheap places, to set up.

Apart from finding a suitable building, the fitting out can be expensive.

One I went to, in Blackpool, had no steam room.

To install one, was going to cost about £30,000.

Then there are showers, dry sauna, lockers, commercial washers & driers, for the towels, gas & electricity. Also, neighbor problems, as mentioned, before. Rates. Council licence, etc.

Ok, if you won the lottery.

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*nterestingtimes2 By *nterestingtimes2  (M)  over a year ago

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Mentioned it to a friend who asked if I was thinking of doing it for free sex .... Free? With those set up costs it would be the dearest sex ever I estimate minimum £80k set up if that were put into say £15 cost to visit = 5333 visits or every day for 14 years (less my returns)

Still like the idea of owning one though

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