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By *elano Jones  (M)  over a year ago

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As a 55yr old Married Guy I am amazed at how many of us indulge and enjoy Gay Sex.

R we all closet Gays?

For me I had a bit of a play in my Teens, just wanking and sucking my best mates Cock then settled down got married had the kids etc.

When I turned 40 (actually 42) I decided to explore and I have to say have never looked back.

I started as a total Top but in the last 5 or so years have preferred to bottom. Now I don't mind so class myself as Versatile.

As my Mrs isn't highly sexed I sought sex elsewhere and for me a Guy gives a better blow job than a women but that's just my perspective.

I just love having my arse being played with rimmed, fingered and fucked.

Are there any other guys in a similar situation or who can resignate with this.

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By *i-bury  (M)  over a year ago

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Similar. I consider myself closet bi and highly sexed.

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By *parklesue  (TV/TS/CD)  over a year ago

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Thers lots of us in the same boat on here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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thats encouraging

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By *imcrmale  (M)  over a year ago

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Same here

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By *iscovery602  (M)  over a year ago

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After being married for many years, sex with mrs dies out, you then go back to your younger days at school, sucking in the shower, bike rides in the nude, playing in fields, oh need that...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Me too. Over the past 3 years i am more gay then bi.

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By *ongingfrit   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Enjoy my bi side too. Anyone around Chichester area?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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There are a lot of us in the same position, i find accommodation the main problem

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By *arry51  (M)  over a year ago

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the accommodation is the biggest factor,along with time! I do enjoy my bi side more now than ever.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I agree with all the comments here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Same here. Sex with my wife is almost unknown. So I find myself meeting guys. Nothing romantic (that said, I do kiss) it's the release with a willing partner that's the nice thing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Well it boils down to the chances of pulling into a layby & meeting a woman stranger for sex is a lot less likely than meeting a guy!

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By *averider   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I think this resonates with lots of us married guys on here. Men are highly sexed and women aren't it seems.

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By *yson hoover   premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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i've had a few married men who have a sexless life with their wifey / girly friend , after all they just want a kiss / cuddle and someone to lend an ear to listen to , and then all that pent up aggresion in the loin area is free , and that is all they need .

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By *hebestrimmer  (M)  over a year ago

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I've sired 5 lads to the wife, bt now its non existant, that being said before and contnuing, ive always met lads - and lots of them, always been lucky in finding decent ones too, never even caught a cold off any of them

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By *i_tightsCD  (M)  over a year ago

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I too did the marriage thing even though I am very bi and keen tv. I even did some family. But gave it all up what I though all men did and settle down with a straight woman. Shortly after getting married I went back to my cross dressing and as time went on and the sex with her became less and less and less enjoyable and she became more of a fucking prude I hit the gay sauna again and never looked back. I stopped fucking her and she asked me why and I told her it was like wanking to bad soft porn. So we divorced and I now live with my bi gf who is actually my first cosin and we both bi and enjoy seeing each other with same sex couples and she loves my fem side to and both have fetish for nylon.

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*ordic-knight By *ordic-knight   premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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I consider myself totally gay [was married once but that was a sexual disaster and many years ago] but most of the guys I meet for sex are married. Most too like to kiss and cuddle as well as have sex yet I'm sure they are genuinely fond of their wives and would never consider leaving them. I'm guessing that the wife no longer fills their sexual appetite and finding another woman to have sex with could lead to complications whereas with another man they can enjoy the moment and then go home.

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By  *appybiuk    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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I'm married and love my wife. I class myself as bi but I'm more gay than bi. I have some regular callers for whom I'm the bottom half of the relationship. I enjoy this position as I like kissing and cuddling. I do also xdress for them and this is something I also enjoy. Most of the guys I meet are married. Some are bi,some gay others are straight. Maybe it's because I do things for them that their wives won't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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have always been bi and a crossdresser

being bi is probably why i married my wife love her to bits but have no sex life with her

so have returned to enjoying my bi side though never really left.

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*e13 By *e13   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Tried pussy when younger, I cum etc but no pleasure, I tried cock with a mate and loved it never looked back suppose been very lucky family know friends know so all worked out well. Had a couple of long term relationships (20 years and 14 years )Now just having fun

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By *bzbill  (M)  over a year ago

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God really can't believe how any guys are in the same boat as me still luv wife but need sex with men and to crossdress I've no idea if I'm bisexual or gay

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*ohn John321 By *ohn John321  (M)  over a year ago

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I am a member of the same club as most of the contributors to this post. Still married after 30 years but sex is not at all important to her and if at all it's 'like wanking to bad softcore porn !!!' (I love that phrase.)

I have a female fuck buddy but we are both married and busy and 100 miles apart so synchronisation of diaries is very difficult.

And then I realised when I hit 50 that I was starting to get interested in gay porn - and it was turning me on, and like other contributors have said - it is a lot easier to find a willing gay sexual partner. So I did. I love it, love wanking, rimming, sucking and fucking and I love having all of the above done to me. No strings, no nonsense sex with a willing and enthusiastic partner is heaven.

I will not leave my wife and she will never find out about my bi side.

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By *i_tightsCD  (M)  over a year ago

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I used to hide it from stupid frigid wife but life is way too short for that bull shit

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By *aura6949   profile verified by photo (TV/TS/CD)  over a year ago

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I would say it's married guy's and bi sex as opposed to gay sex

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By *i_tightsCD  (M)  over a year ago

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Being very anti marriage I feel that this whole marriage nonsense should take into account of women being super fuck at the start and then end up as frigid ugly fuckers later on. Why should we spend our life with one of them

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By *FCGlass  (M)  over a year ago

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I'm in a similar situation but just in an early stage. I am a closet Bi, stuck in a long term relationship with no sex life.

Just cant bring my self to ultimately cheat even though I know it would make me a lot happier.

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By *all Bi  (M)  over a year ago

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For me it's like most of the posters on this thread - sex with the Mrs has stopped for whatever reason and I need another outlet. Also, I've got a need that I've largely suppressed for a long while and need to fulfil. There are a lot of things that I've never done with a guy that I want to try before I get too old and am laden down with regret!

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By *unnyUK  (M)  over a year ago

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It's the old question.... "How do you cure a woman of nymphomania?" Answer.... marry her!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Married guys are the worst to meet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Guys need sex simples! If we don't get at home this is the simplest uncomplicated way.

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By *ungrysub  (M)  over a year ago

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I agree. The wife's chatting to others guys and shit so I'm going to as well X

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*i courious Ken By *i courious Ken  (M)  over a year ago

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Yes in same boat mate , find it so sexy another male sucking me off and deep throating me

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*uminsoon By *uminsoon   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Been going with guys since an early age. Moved away from home and met a woman who I love, have kids and happily married for a long time. I've no interest in ending our marriage. Sex is becoming less frequent if existant at all. Returned to having sex/meetings with guys a long time ago. Never been with another woman and no interest in other women, guys however have always had an attraction for me sex wise however I couldn't see myself settling down with a guy even if I'd never married

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By *iscovery602  (M)  over a year ago

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The longer you live with a woman the sex becomes less, we still need it so what do we do, go with another woman and betray, or find a lovely guy whos in the same boat?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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So many of us in same boat.

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By *iscovery602  (M)  over a year ago

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Your right there.

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By  *ukeeybigboy    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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I love my wife but sex was always about procreation... Creating kids was her only requirement for sex. I had a near-miss with a lad in my teens and always wondered what sex would be like with another man... When sex stopped completely with my wife I decided to give men a go(using contacts through this site). Wow, never looked back, and I find my sex drive increasing each time I have a male encounter. Unlike some of the other comments here I don't want a kiss and cuddle, I just want sex. I'm topping at the moment but would like to try being bottom so that I can share the full experience of my bisexual encounters. I find I get a great thrill from making another man come, however all of my ejaculations have been far better with men than with any woman I have ever been with. I need my male meetings to continue...and look forward to having far more in future!!

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By *hris1039   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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My itch don't get scratched at home very often, if it does it feels like maintaining the relationship. Here it's pure lust and shooting your load with someone that actually wants it. Most guys swallow yet most women cringe!

Happy fucking you horny lot x

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*m66uk By *m66uk  (M)  over a year ago

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Yes they are!

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*ichard_inhand By  *ichard_inhand    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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I could have written this post. It is word for word how my life has panned out. Living in the northwest; fuck buddy woman in the south west . . . found cock 16 years ago and never looked back. I just wish that the accommodation bit was easier but, having said that, I think that I appreciate it when it happens more because it is so rare that I get the house to myself and I can invite people over for some no-strings, naked, extravagant pleasure.

Rich X


"I am a member of the same club as most of the contributors to this post. Still married after 30 years but sex is not at all important to her and if at all it's 'like wanking to bad softcore porn !!!' (I love that phrase.)

I have a female fuck buddy but we are both married and busy and 100 miles apart so synchronisation of diaries is very difficult.

And then I realised when I hit 50 that I was starting to get interested in gay porn - and it was turning me on, and like other contributors have said - it is a lot easier to find a willing gay sexual partner. So I did. I love it, love wanking, rimming, sucking and fucking and I love having all of the above done to me. No strings, no nonsense sex with a willing and enthusiastic partner is heaven.

I will not leave my wife and she will never find out about my bi side."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"Same here. Sex with my wife is almost unknown. So I find myself meeting guys. Nothing romantic (that said, I do kiss) it's the release with a willing partner that's the nice thing "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I agree, sex with wife is seldom now! accommodation and meets always a problem, which is a pity as enjoy a good blowjob and wank

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Sex with my wife is flood or famine, after 6 months without she was suggesting it 3 times in a fortnight, and now its been 3 months again.

Generally my urges are to cum about twice a week, not a rushed thing, nice and relaxed arousal, so you can understand why I end up on sites like this and others masturbating with like minded guys who love their wife but need mental if not physical accompaniment.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I also did the marriage thing and am still married but had a high sex drive

When I discovered that you could meet guys in a cottage and have sex ,no internet then I was amazed at how many married guys where at it

I did wonder if their was such a thing a a straight guy

That was over 20 years ago sex with the wife is rare I find that I am not as keen on women now days .

The young girls are good on the ego look good but fuck are they a pain clingy,and is it me as I am older I can't stand a smelly pussy

Give me a nice clean cock and ass any day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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also married and sexlife is non existent so I find myself looking for fun in other ways

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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ive had experiences with guys and want more now as long as discreet

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*hestinut By *hestinut  (M)  over a year ago

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Same here, its as if when our ladies pass the age of having babies they are no longer interested in sex.

To satisfy my needs I have turned to solo play with toys and play with my male friends. Men seem to know better what men like and can provide great satisfaction without the emotional strings.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I have times when thinking about my wife being taken by other men would turn me on so much

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By *ustjols  (M)  over a year ago

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Had many meets when I was married had more sex with guys than women

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I am mainly the same as everyone on here wife lost interest in sex and I find sex with men exciting. For me accommodating is a no no and don't like outdoors sex at all just too fussy.

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By  *ookin4fun59    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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My young gay friend that i meet regular now for about 2 years tells me i am gay and not bi due to what we get up to when we are together, he has been with what he calls bi guys and they do differently. I must admit i enjoy making love with him much more than my wife of 30 years. I had sex with a guy when we were younger than i can mention on here, but back in them days it was such a big no no to be gay or bi, that is why i think there are so many guys my age which are looking for gay/bi sex these days. If we had our time over again in this day i wonder how many would be out gay/bi

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*anjoo69 By *anjoo69  (M)  over a year ago

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How young ??? Can I join you ???!!!!

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By *aturelover167  (M)  over a year ago

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Knew I was bi at young age but my background and early career stopped me exploring this then, but now exploring enjoying and loving it,bi happy high sex drive, best place wanked,29 bus west end early hours

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By *i_tightsCD  (M)  over a year ago

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I knew I was bi since my teens and was able to express and enjoy it. I just wasted my time getting married that is all

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By  *ookin4fun59    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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"How young ??? Can I join you ???!!!!"

25, and sorry but no, he's mine

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By *onnylikesitall  (TV/TS/CD)  over a year ago

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Ive been bi all of my life,was always a top and Ive been enjoying ladyboys bums ever since my first one when i was 18(in the navy in asia),

Tvs in the uk etc.

My first time as a bottom was when i was 38ish

was with another tv who i met at Harry,s bar in plymouth. We both got pissed and just seemed the thing to do(now sorry id waited so long).

Still like sex with women but wife has gone off it so its a lot easier to get satisfaction if i put on stockings suspenders and panties and bend over!!!

Not perfect i know but its the best i can do.

Would love to find a reg guy in bristol who wants my bum on a reg basis

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By *lackhrny  (M)  over a year ago

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I wouldn't say I 'knew' I was bi, but had my first sexual experience with a man, purely by accident in my teens - I think I've written about it in a previous forum post on here, and like many/most, it was in a Cottage

I've not stopped though came to pretty much a total stop when I was married

I've since done things such as kissing that in the early stages I would not do because it was 'gay'. Now of course I pretty much won't meet unless kissing is part of the deal

I still really enjoy sex with women and still think their bodies are very sexy and great to look at

Some time ago I stopped beating myself up about it and also stopped putting things into compartments in terms of what I would do with a man and what I would do with a woman sexually

Barring obvious physiological differences, for me it's much more about how we 'click' and what makes us both feel good sexually

Even if it's a casual meet that is highly unlikely to be repeated, it's my experience that it's possible to get that 'connection' and develop a level of sex and sensuality that carries you both away for the time you're together, however long or short that might be

Just my thoughts

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By  *appybiuk    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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I thought when I was young. I was a bit weird. Mostly because I liked to run around naked in the woods and fields. I would also play with myself. As I got older, I started to wear my sisters knickers. I used to pock things up my bum making out I was my sister with her boyfriend. This was when I realised I was gay. In my teens I met a guy that had me as his girlfriend. Never looked back since. Although I do still like licking a pussy, better still a used one.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Was teenager when had first gay sex encounter, and not until mid 20's when slept with woman who I eventually married. So probably gay and married or just bi as equally enjoy both types of sex.

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By *obin79  (M)  over a year ago

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My wife knew I'd been with loads of guys before her.

I slowed down a bit going with guys when we became serious.

I find it hugely disrespectful guys bragging on here about being married and going with loads of men.

STD's are common, what if you pass something on to her?

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*ordic-knight By *ordic-knight   premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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Reading through this thread I can empathize with most of you. I knew from an early age that I was gay but had read it was a phase a lot of teenage boys went through so assumed I would end up straight. When, in my 20s, it was not happening I decided to 'speed up' the process by dating girls and ultimately marrying one. Although we got on quite well sexually it was a disaster and eventually we divorced. Since then I have not been with a woman [ I did spend the night with a post-op transsexual out of curiosity ]

I like women as people but I am only attracted to men and thoroughly enjoy having sex with men. I know most of the guys I have hooked up with are married but they obviously have a need for sex with a man and I am usually happy to oblige. I'm not keen on meeting in the marital home and draw the line at the marital bed.

The longest relationship I had was with a married man. He had always known he was bi but never done anything about it. His wife completely went off sex after being told she must not have any more kids. We became great mates and I doubt many people suspected anything. Problem was I was quite in love with him and then he realised he was falling in love with me so end our affair. Sex with another man was one thing but forming a romantic attachment was something he could not cope with.

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By *i_tightsCD  (M)  over a year ago

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Being bi and divorced and living with a gf now that is bi too. We are totally into casual sex and she has her bfs and the odd gf and I have my sissy bfs. I regret getting married and should have worked out earlier that women are ok for the odd fuck but def not for a relationship. I have never regretted any bf that I had and still have

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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About 3 years ago, my wife and I split up and I lived by myself in a flat for a year. During this time I discovered the joys of man-on-man sex. I had 2 buddies who would visit me (at random) and have fun with me. One was more of a friend and would turn up at my flat, we would strip then just fondle and chat for a while then he would fuck me and leave. The other guy would just turn up, I would expose my arse and he would just force his cock inside me, fuck me hard and leave. I am now back with the wife and would love to find some new buddies but as already pointed out, time and accommodation are the main problems. Am I gay/bi? I would say NO! I don't find men in the slightest bit attractive, but I do love their big cocks

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By *rickyd   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I too experimented in my teens. I had a circle of likeminded friends and had a massive sex drive. I had two friends in particular who I would have regular sex with and was firmly convinced I was gay. I joined the forces, drifted away from my friends and met my wife, who I've been with for over 30 years. Sex with her dried up years ago. I've had a couple of female FBs over the years but never had the same enjoyment as I've had from having sex with another guy. Is it frustration with women, or am I regressing back to a time when I preferred men?

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By *i_tightsCD  (M)  over a year ago

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Only for my current gf I would give up on women entirely regarding sex. With guys or other sissies that I meet and I do not even have to ask as sex is always on offer in some form or another.

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*e13 By *e13   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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im gay and always enjoyed cock and man on man , I tried the girls when younger decided there an then not for me to much like hard work. So a young man i put myself about a bit, had a 20 year plus relationship with a guy, and with current guy for 10 plus years bit dont live together and no sex, Nowadays must say most men i meet are married bi or curious at least and as i am only here for sex suits me fine, I think social media/internet has a lot to do with guys meeting other guys as its so easy.

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*ordic-knight By *ordic-knight   premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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"About 3 years ago, my wife and I split up and I lived by myself in a flat for a year. During this time I discovered the joys of man-on-man sex. I had 2 buddies who would visit me (at random) and have fun with me. One was more of a friend and would turn up at my flat, we would strip then just fondle and chat for a while then he would fuck me and leave. The other guy would just turn up, I would expose my arse and he would just force his cock inside me, fuck me hard and leave. I am now back with the wife and would love to find some new buddies but as already pointed out, time and accommodation are the main problems. Am I gay/bi? I would say NO! I don't find men in the slightest bit attractive, but I do love their big cocks "

You are not gay but, like it or not, you are definitely bi.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Been into cock from a very early age, started off when as a teen used to mess around orally with friends mums and aunties, never full intercourse but got very good at oral, one day a guy in his early 20s appeared at the foot of the bed totally naked she just said don't worry we all going to fuck n have fun, well he gave me the best head ever(I know I was only young BUT) then it got to be my turn on him and wow it was amazing, after that I spent more private time with him than the ladies, got married a couple of times, messed about in-between with guys, TVs and girlie boys, still have pussy with the current Mrs but enjoy oral and fucking young fit guys so much more, the Mrs enjoys anal so got added bonus but she has no cock for me to enjoy, she does get plenty on her travels so does not go short

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By *arbi   profile verified by photo (TV/TS/CD)  over a year ago

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love playing with married men, do things for them their wifes don't do. wear their clothes and fuck on their beds and hubby can do all he likes even role play as their wife being a slut love it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"About 3 years ago, my wife and I split up and I lived by myself in a flat for a year. During this time I discovered the joys of man-on-man sex. I had 2 buddies who would visit me (at random) and have fun with me. One was more of a friend and would turn up at my flat, we would strip then just fondle and chat for a while then he would fuck me and leave. The other guy would just turn up, I would expose my arse and he would just force his cock inside me, fuck me hard and leave. I am now back with the wife and would love to find some new buddies but as already pointed out, time and accommodation are the main problems. Am I gay/bi? I would say NO! I don't find men in the slightest bit attractive, but I do love their big cocks

You are not gay but, like it or not, you are definitely bi."

Fair enough. At the end of the day, does it matter?Why do people make a big thing about being gay/bi/str8? I am a married man, loves women and enjoys playing with other men. I am what I am

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By *aked4u2   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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When all's said and done it is just about sexual pleasure with another adult !

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By *orny bilad  (M)  over a year ago

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I like reading the interesting stories on here, Iv had straight relationships in my early years but they never worked out so I turned to meeting guys with a mate and Iv never looked back its more fun with guys, seems over the years Iv noticed there's a lot of straight married guys looking for cock as Iv met quite a few I suppose it's the buzz that turns me on meeting married guys but it the end of the day it's all discreet fun ??

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"Same here. Sex with my wife is almost unknown. So I find myself meeting guys. Nothing romantic (that said, I do kiss) it's the release with a willing partner that's the nice thing

Exactly!"

Kissing is essential for me as part of foreplay not romance, had some greats sessions with married men had a couple of dreadful as well and me being masculine and gay most straight/bi guys seem to know that its going to be man on man sex no strings, dont talk about woman pussy TVS just good amn on man sex and i have a great arse so it all works lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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well my wife is ill so no sex anymore frustrating for us both. I was seduced by a trannie whilst out dogging when I was 56 been addicted to them ever since!

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By *aul2102  (M)  over a year ago

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I've been married a long time and love my wife, however sex doesn't exist any more and I'm happy with that.. I've always fancied men more than woman and enjoy sex with men far more. So now I only ever have sex with men and I must say I love it..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I'm married and to be honest the sexy life with the wife is good. We do it at least four times a week and she sucks cock well. But my urges for cock has grown big time in the last couple of years. Last guy I messed around with was 10 years ago, and we had a great time. I was out of my teens and in my mid twenties and so the awkwardness and guilt wasn't there like it was in my teens. I used to always end up sucking off my schoolmates and loved it but always felt wrong afterwards! Soon after I met my Mrs so it didn't happen again with my mate and he moved away. It's hard as I don't really want to cheat with my wife but the urges are now too strong. I enjoy cock, It's not easy for me to meet and outdoors is out of the question but I'm hoping I can meet someone in a similar situation or a few one offs for some fun. I feel it's something I need to get out of my system again. The older I've got the more I've realised and accepted what I am and what I like. And I like pussy and cock lol

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By *fonso  (M)  over a year ago

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I’m also married and sex life almost not exist, and I found myself looking for fun in other ways, always found myself just bi, as equally I enjoy both types of sex, I have had experiences with guys and couples and want more now as long as discreet, but I love be sucked, and want try be fucked if one day i find a small and thin cock.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I have no desire to be fucked! I love receiving a blow job and will wank and suck in return. love a dresser and want to fuck but everyone wants experienced tops!

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By *rizzlelad  (M)  over a year ago

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Well if any of you married guys that are in Bristol ateawant to meet up - give me a shout

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I'm not married any more but do have a regular GF but she doesnt like A. Thats where you guys come in so handy. Love your tight holes and your submission it's that which makes me very horny indeed.

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By *115   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I met quite a few married guys. They are good fuckers

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By *i_tightsCD  (M)  over a year ago

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Becoming a dresser and a bi in my teen with the help of mum and aunt I had super erotic bi upbringing. I tried to do the straight normal thing. Mum warned me that it would not work but went ahead with it and got married to what I thought very open minded horny woman only to find she was complete opposite so spend a fucking year getting divorced and getting rid of the fucker so now have a very bi and horny gf and we both have serious nylon fetish and she loves me fem and our erotic lifestyle.

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By *amienewcastle   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I think most men have the same experiences, started with my mates cock when we were in our teens, then married and had twenty ears of cunt, but eventually she stopped so I went back to guys of all ages. Still love playing with cock and balls and swallowing spunk.

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By *onavan69  (M)  over a year ago

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i have to take my hat off to guys that get married as ,this is what we are told we have to do ,and then kids etc ,but we all have the right to be happy so as long as your safe and clean ,maybe ask the wife what would be her most wild fantasty and try to do them ,and then you can get the wifes to come round to doing more ,but if your feelings get strong for cock then go for it ,i asked all the guys i have on my phone and ,i have to say nearly all are married or living with and most said they wished they never got married ,and told the family they did not want that life ,i'm a happy guy that has both and we all have our own friends and we all tell each other everything ,we don't hide anything this i find makes the air clear for what we all do ,and when a guy drop's me a message for meeting and if he is willing to join a threesome then i ask my mate for his in put,this is when we say yes or no ,but if there is a few photos ,i will give out my e-mail details or mobile and get the meet set up ,all these's i have done have stayed close and ,we meet up when they like and we all know it's nsa if any one gets the idea for more ,we all cut the ties and that is that but married guys are sometimes like that ,some times i seem to be a sound board for there feelings etc which is okay ,and some mail me with ideas of what they would like to try with a guy ,and for the married guys that think there partners don't know be very aware that your not so big headed as one guy was found out and shocked when his wife was sitting outside my old house she had the cheek to ask was it all safe and could she ,use the loo as it's been a long wait ,she has now become a very good mate plus i still have fun with the husband ,as she said he wants it far to much and a woman would hurt far to much so i do feel proud of the guys that go with all this to deal with .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I have loved cock since an age that is not allowed to be talked about.. Stopped a few years later as I was pressured to get myself a girlfriend.. was with several GF's, and then met one in my mid twenties and have been with her ever since.. It was only the past year or so that the sex with her has completely dried up.. So needless to say, I was starting to look elsewhere Even though I don't find guys attractive at all. But giving oral sex to them is fantastic..

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By *havedcock58  (M)  over a year ago

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like the last message i sucked my first cock at an age that cannot be mentioned on here then the next time was when i was about twenty when i was with my first wife we got to know a very gay barman in a pub we used to drink in he said to me one evening that i could go to his and share a pork pie any time LOL so i took him up on his comment and went round to see him whilst out shopping for mrs as she didnt get about very easily as soon as i got in his flat i was naked and we would suck each of and i took my first mouth full of cum this ended some months later as we moved out the area nothing much happened for a while untill i got with my second wife sex with her was amazing but like a drug addict i started looking for a bigger and better buz by having affairs with other women this caused us to have quite a few breaks so i started going to a sauna not to far from where i lived enjoyed being sucked and wanked and doing the same for others this again stopped as the place closed down wife and i settled down and built a more steady relationship a few years ago she got really ill and still is and sex stopped completely and i became her carer so had to stop working so couldnt get out to meet any body men or women after a year or so i managed to get a part time driving job mainly in the evenings at weekends so managed to get to saunas again or even meet guys at their homes this is when i finally managed to get fucked and really enjoyed it right from the begining no pain just pure enjoyment we have recently moved half way across the country to be be near family but dont really know any body and sex is not so in your face as where we used to live so no sex again at the moment all i do is watch lots of porn when mrs is safely tucked up in bed which leads me to my next comment and that is that i find gay porn more of a turn on than straight and think i am more gay than straight i actually think gay sex is more normal than straight thanks for reading my thread woul love to read any comments on my sex life please message my by presonnel message

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By *hebestrimmer  (M)  over a year ago

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Been sucking cocks since the days of non mentionable, still am and will continue to do so & before anyone else asks, yes I am married, have been for over 27 yrs, produced 4 natural sons and have also adopted one.

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By *i_tightsCD  (M)  over a year ago

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The thing I find is that women are such a fucking disaster sex wise even my gf admits her gender are. I is a wonder a lot more males are turning bi. And seeing most of us start cock sucking before an age we should mention also shows that society is wrong demonising us for something that is very natural

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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yes i agree with all the above, loads more gay than bi these days

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By *ervyn241  (M)  over a year ago

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I have been married 3 times, but since an early age always loved cock after experiences with friends and guys I met in cottages, at an early age. I was shy as a youngster, and couldnt get sex from a female, it was always easier to get wanked and sucked in a cottage, I loved to suck and watch cum shoot thru my efforts, I love cock and fucking guys, lots better than a cunt, and women think they have the power over you, always loved anal fucking and play,most women do it as as s favour, if at all, bi sex all the way for me. I've fucked more guys than i have. my present wife.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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loved to have got anal, but just to painful! love sucking cock though, love hot sperm to swallow

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I agree , men are easier to get on with ( most of the time ) i love the directness and mutual satisfaction

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By  *appybiuk    profile verified by photo premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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I've been sucking cock and taking anal long before I started going with women. Now married had kids. Still sucking and taking anal. Which I thoroughly enjoy.

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By *rectile20101  (M)  over a year ago

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I'm a married guy and enjoyed sex with my voracious wife for 37 years then the activity just stopped. She worked away and by chance I met a guy who was not pushy and I had my first man on man 69. It was great. Had been seeing other women but all the crap of buying drinks and lunches for a shag is tedious. Guys are more inventive, say what they like and get on with it. I feel I've missed out on life lol. Now I have experienced just about everything (including bondage, s&m, anal, caning, even been dressed by a guy for his pleasure) and I love it all. I have to say I've met some great people but living the gay life does not appeal to me but bi life should be compulsory! I'm in Kent and always happy to meet new guys.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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yes was 56 when I had my first encounter! All those wasted years!

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By *RWYN  (M)  over a year ago

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I played a bit when I was a teenager , then didn't do anything for the 35 years . What a waste. ?

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By *havedcock58  (M)  over a year ago

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just read lookin4funs message i deffinatly would be gay if i had my time again no 2 ways about it

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By *havedcock58  (M)  over a year ago

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i agree with _rectile20101 bi life should be compulsory i am starting to think bi is normal not abnormal what do you guys out therethink ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I think we are all bi, as we grow society shapes how we need to 'behave'. As we get older I think its easier to adopt a 'fuck it' approach to life and be honest about our views - just an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I'm not sure we're all bi, but my guess is that quite a few of us are.

I knew at an early age that I was interested in what the other boys had but I didn't act upon it much. I did the 'normal' thing and got married and had kids - which I don't regret at all - but the old feelings never went and I regret not having indulged them. I now find myself agreeing with you, popper335, in that I do seem to have adopted a bit of a 'fuck it' approach to the problem and I do want to be honest about how I feel, even to the point of discussing it with my wife. She's been wonderful about it, couldn't have been any better. Like I said, I don't regret getting married and it seems she feels the same. That doesn't mean that the problem's evaporated. If I do have any kind of sex with a man, and I hope I will, I know I'll feel guilty about it but the feeling's so strong, and it's been there for so long, that I know I'll have to act on it eventually. It seems I'm not alone in feeling this way?

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By *heerlover   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I've always known I was Bi.

I can remember my mate Robin and I showing each other our "Willy's" and then as I grew older through school and then college looking at men in showers and wanting to do more than look. But I got the girlfriends and eventually married but as soon as the internet started I made contact with a load of guys who were married Bi or gay including tvs.

We chatted and showed our bits to each other but it wasn't until I stopped at what I now know is a well known cruising site in guildford that I first touched/tasted a man that I realised I was definitely bisexual.

Since then I've met loads of different types of men young,old,skinny,big and some really well hung 10" monsters to 4" skinny's but the one constant for me is as soon as I get home to my wife after any encounter i have the urge to be alot more loving and sexual with her.

So in a way it's better for our relationship.

There have been times when I've come home after 3 men have all ejaculated in my mouth and I've just walked in and kissed her for her to look at me differently but I don't think she knows

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I'm in the same boat as you Sheerlover.

I've known I've been bi for years but it was only about 4-5 years ago I started acting on it after my young teen encounters.

My mrs has no idea whatsoever, but I have a very good female friend who knows everything about me and I confessed to her 2 weeks ago and the weight of the world that has been lifted off my shoulders.. If anything she is pushing me to do it more, She knows I'm in a sexless relationship with my mrs, but she just says.. Well, If you aint getting it off her, get it somewhere else if it makes you happy then go for it.. But the fact I can now talk about it to someone has made my Bi side come out a hell of a lot more.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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"I'm in the same boat as you Sheerlover.

I've known I've been bi for years but it was only about 4-5 years ago I started acting on it after my young teen encounters.

My mrs has no idea whatsoever, but I have a very good female friend who knows everything about me and I confessed to her 2 weeks ago and the weight of the world that has been lifted off my shoulders.. If anything she is pushing me to do it more, She knows I'm in a sexless relationship with my mrs, but she just says.. Well, If you aint getting it off her, get it somewhere else if it makes you happy then go for it.. But the fact I can now talk about it to someone has made my Bi side come out a hell of a lot more."

Just like to point out it was me that was a young teen... Never done anything like that in the past few years.. Always stuck to gents my age or older.

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By *need2tryit  (M)  over a year ago

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I am just a horny bastard, I don't know if I am gay or bi, to be honest I would fuck a frog if I could stop it jumping long enough

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By *rian2   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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You enjoy sex with french people?

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*ordic-knight By *ordic-knight   premium paying member (M)  over a year ago

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"You enjoy sex with french people? "

Why not? Some lovely French guys around. I did a 7 week relief management in a Hampshire hotel once. Horrible place but a French waiter kept me very happy

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By *ewcocol  (M)  over a year ago

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I once stayed in a hotel in Roubaix for a week and the French receptionist who was openly gay caught me checking him out a few times. Sadly I was sharing a room with another driver so I couldn't get away to indulge with him. Such a pity, he was very fuckable as well.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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this has made me very horny indeed...mmm very horny

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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You are not alone given the numerous chats and meets I've had

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By *ason_aaa_1999  (M)  over a year ago

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Guess I've gone through stages of being a horny straight teenager into my mid 20s and then an encounter in a cottage got me into cock; but I still liked women. So I guess I was 'bisexual'. As sex with the wife subsided in my 40s I have pretty much been exclusively been having sex with men moving from top to versatile and now to bottom.

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By *i_tightsCD  (M)  over a year ago

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I actually find gay sex now far more enjoyable and with women

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*odshag13 By *odshag13   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Well I think that either I'm a lucky bastard as 2 marriages have converted vanilla to be my sexual slut.

We both meet guys and have true dirty kinky sex sharing cock.

Rimming partner as getting fucked then ducking his cock make sure he is rock solid and feeding it into arse is heaven.

Most women are just as board introduce some role play and see.

1st wife became 2 involved in dom and she no longer my slave so drifted.

2nd wife loves when I have been to sauna and took Co k or 2.

Then tell her as she fucks with 12 inch black strap on.

Now and then share a cock but prefer her to be gang bang slut who I rent out.

Take her there and watch /film making sure all holes really fucked then 3/4 hrs later spunk on face tits hair cunt ass take her home but usually we fuck as diggers love fucking a no tasting well used slut.

Try with wife maybe surprised that she is game

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*odshag13 By *odshag13   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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Well I think that either I'm a lucky bastard as 2 marriages have converted vanilla to be my sexual slut.

We both meet guys and have true dirty kinky sex sharing cock.

Rimming partner as getting fucked then ducking his cock make sure he is rock solid and feeding it into arse is heaven.

Most women are just as board introduce some role play and see.

1st wife became 2 involved in dom and she no longer my slave so drifted.

2nd wife loves when I have been to sauna and took Co k or 2.

Then tell her as she fucks with 12 inch black strap on.

Now and then share a cock but prefer her to be gang bang slut who I rent out.

Take her there and watch /film making sure all holes really fucked then 3/4 hrs later spunk on face tits hair cunt ass take her home but usually we fuck as diggers love fucking a no tasting well used slut.

Try with wife maybe surprised that she is game

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By *ecor  (M)  over a year ago

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I suppose I am simply adding to what has been covered.

I had an affair with an older man when I was 17, I enjoyes it. At the same time I was going with females so you could say I am really bisexual.

As some of you on here my wife went off sex and I masturbated more frequently. And then I found this site. I like mens comapany, I meet fairly regular. I have fucked men and like to be fucked. I am now addicted to mens cocks.

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By *urpleasure   profile verified by photo (M)  over a year ago

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I have good sex with my wife regularly. But I'm a dirty sod and have always wanted to be used by men. I don't get turned on by men, but I love being fucked by them (it doesn't make me hard, I just feel thrilled by the decadence of it).

I don't suck cock for pleasure as such, but I have no problem doing it with great enthusiasm where a guy wants me to - so long as he fucks me!

I suspect I'm not typical and perhaps have some issues, but I don't worry about it - I want to stay married but I also want to be fucked like a bitch whenever I can be!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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yes totally

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By *lana  (M)  over a year ago

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"the accommodation is the biggest factor,along with time! I do enjoy my bi side more now than ever. "

same for me thats why I try and meet local guys no point wasting most of the time traveling to a meet

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By *onavan69  (M)  over a year ago

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in my life married guys are the best,as they don't get on the phone all the time or,like a few days ago i had a session with a gay guy ,and he would not take the message i was not up for a second ,but he camped outside my home ,so im now looking for married as the rules are simple ,but if we hit it off i will keep it simple so any one in my area ,who fits my profile just message me have a place away from eyes and i'm very discreet .

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By *i_tightsCD  (M)  over a year ago

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They also love to spend the night with you when their wife and family are away. This is my bfs biggest loves just spending whole night together

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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i am married and only have sex with men nowadays due to wifes lack of interest in sex but i dont think of myself as gay even though ive been with about a dozen men recently but only ever slept with one woman

am i now gay ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I know i will get shot down for this but here goes.

A lot of guys say "wifes gone off sex" etc etc but then if you go on sites like the sister site and other dating sites you find the wives saying exactly the same thing about their husbands. And I can speak from experience on this that some of these so called "frigid|" women are dieing to be used and have enjoyed both straight and MMF with BI guys so maybe it back to that thing people dont tend to do nowaydays...talking???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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I know when the mrs has gone off sex.. You try it on with her, you get told to "sort yourself out" in the other room, or your laying in bed and you cuddle up and let your hands start wandering and then her gated legs start to close..

I love being with a woman as much as I do being with a guy.. But I've found that most of the "attached to female" guys on here are just soo frustrated that it's easier to get what they want with no complications on here.. If other willing men are willing to participate and help eachother out.. then I don't see a problem.. As long as your safe and don't give your mrs something that she didn't want when she does eventually let you slide down her pink run

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"i am married and only have sex with men nowadays due to wifes lack of interest in sex but i dont think of myself as gay even though ive been with about a dozen men recently but only ever slept with one woman

am i now gay ?"

No. You come somewhere in that very wide spectrum known as "Bi-Sexual"

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By *odie1  (TV/TS/CD)  over a year ago

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I have been fucked by a number of married guys a 50-50 split between those who deny been gay/bi and those that admit it

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By *ugbyguy40  (M)  over a year ago

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I have a daytime cruising spot near me that I go and sunbathe naked at and then hopefully get joined by a hot guy. A few years ago I used to see a sexy guy around 40 down there quite a lot. He started off quite shy and wouldn't join me on my towel but would only do stuff if we found a discrete spot in the bushes and then only wanking without kissing. After a few meets down there though I convinced him to join me naked on my towel and fuck me as other guys walked past and we'd properly snog. He had a nice thick cock. One day though I saw him walking round the nearest town with his wife and kids and I'll always remember the look of sheer panic in his eyes as he saw me walking towards him. I've been with a lot of married guys but that's the only time I've been in that situation. Only saw him once after that but he gave me a really good last fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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Im married. Sex with the wife happens but no where near as much as it should or could. And for me too its like wanking to soft porn, even though we have penetrative sex. I think as most guys have said its about being married and being with a guy who is in the same situation AND KNOWING HES SOMEONE WHO ACTUALLY WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH ME. Thats the biggest bonus in all this for me. Anyone near dudley and married. Message me. We can arrange to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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So i am in a happy relationship but are sex life is severley lacking and it doesnt really intrest her after what an ex of hers did to her. Its a big change from what she was like before we had a break and the ex appeared. I have always been bi and she used to be into anal and rimming and playing with my arse but these days its quick missionary if anything.

I have met guys when i have been single and even a few while with my gf. I hate the idea of cheating on her but like most of you i crave the intimacy of a lover who wants you.

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By *HIL54  (M)  over a year ago

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I've lost count of the times I've made excuses not to have sex with the wife i love her to bits but hate sex with her would much rather be having sex with a man anytime

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By *aginsund   profile verified by photo (M) 50 weeks ago

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Agree with most comments on this thread. Of course there is the added reason that us bottoms / subs will do things for vers / top men that most wives won't do - i.e. suck & swallow, rim etc.

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*oetvsub By *oetvsub  (TV/TS/CD) 50 weeks ago

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Apart from one gay encounter when 18 with a guy in his 40s and his wife, i was straight - married - family - and usual story - highly sexed - wife became prudish and sexless (menopause) i found sex elsewhere - pros -onto dominatrixes - then tvs and found myself switching from bi curious to fully bi and being tv to the point now tv/ts - still just married - mrs found out years back and blackmailed me - i stopped 2yrs but resumed - she found out again -this time i said accept me or divorce. she's chosen reluctant acceptance (of me dressing on my own at our holiday pad).

i now feel more a woman than a man when i away from the family!

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By *amienewcastle   profile verified by photo (M) 49 weeks ago

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I wonder how many guys have turned to cock because their wives refused to have sex anymore? Mine did 20 Yeats ago but I find other guys clocks horny and sexy

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By *AVE4455   premium paying member (M) 49 weeks ago

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I think its what a lot of guys go thru ...... am still married .. but about 15 yrs ago I indulged in some bi/gay fun and have enjoyed it ever since ....and hope for more lol

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

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I realise that this thread is a bit 'long in the tooth', but can a relative newbie add a comment?

The opening question alluded why so many people on this site are married men.

I wonder if the dreaded menopause has anything to do with it? Men seem to retain - and even enjoy - their sexual activity well into their 70s; yet the fire of sexual passion in their wives will frequently grow dim after 60. Hence many men (and who can blame them) will resort initially to solo masturbation and then graduate to enjoying sex with other men.

I regularly use a local gay sauna and would say that the majority of the men that I have met and been intimate with were married and straight, but with recently-discovered bi leanings.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

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I tried cock 3 years ago and never looked back I'm addicted to cock now iLOVE COCK

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By *teeeveee  (M) 48 weeks ago

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"I wonder how many guys have turned to cock because their wives refused to have sex anymore? Mine did 20 Yeats ago but I find other guys clocks horny and sexy"

That's exactly it. Plus guys are more straightforward, we know what we want, do it and go our separate ways.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

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"I know when the mrs has gone off sex.. You try it on with her, you get told to "sort yourself out" in the other room, or your laying in bed and you cuddle up and let your hands start wandering and then her gated legs start to close..

I love being with a woman as much as I do being with a guy.. But I've found that most of the "attached to female" guys on here are just soo frustrated that it's easier to get what they want with no complications on here.. If other willing men are willing to participate and help eachother out.. then I don't see a problem.. As long as your safe and don't give your mrs something that she didn't want when she does eventually let you slide down her pink run"

Spot on with my situation, I wouldn't really say I'm attracted to guys as such, I just love sex and men are always up for it. A choice of a man or a woman I'd choose a woman, but if nothing else is about I'm happy to go bi, not into kissing though.

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By *imbo1218   profile verified by photo (M) 48 weeks ago

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"I know when the mrs has gone off sex.. You try it on with her, you get told to "sort yourself out" in the other room, or your laying in bed and you cuddle up and let your hands start wandering and then her gated legs start to close..

I love being with a woman as much as I do being with a guy.. But I've found that most of the "attached to female" guys on here are just soo frustrated that it's easier to get what they want with no complications on here.. If other willing men are willing to participate and help eachother out.. then I don't see a problem.. As long as your safe and don't give your mrs something that she didn't want when she does eventually let you slide down her pink run

Spot on with my situation, I wouldn't really say I'm attracted to guys as such, I just love sex and men are always up for it. A choice of a man or a woman I'd choose a woman, but if nothing else is about I'm happy to go bi, not into kissing though. "

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By *imbo1218   profile verified by photo (M) 48 weeks ago

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Oops, posted the above before I wrote my agreement with all that the poster had written!

In my case it's the 'oh, don't get all randy' comment or 'do you want to play with yourself?'... No, dammit, I at least want you to play with me if I'm not going to be allowed to play with you!

If I go to my local sauna, at least I know all the other guys there are there for one reason - the same as me - sex, sex and more sex. Where can one go to find women in the same frame of mind (without paying a fortune!)?

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*ssexcruiser By *ssexcruiser  (M) 48 weeks ago

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I have met several guys on here and many are married. I have found, like many others have mentioned, that their wives/girlfriends are no longer interested, or they don't give bj's. Many say that men give the best ones. Most don't want to end their relationships but just want to play away with a guy who knows how to please.I am more than happy to assist and think of it as a 'community service'!!!

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

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That is the difference I think, there are loads of men out there that are willing just to suck you off and swallow it all, that's all they want, and most bi married men want a quick suck and go relief.

The perfect supply and demand equilibrium, now they don't teach that in your economics class.

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By *ngela16  (TV/TS/CD) 48 weeks ago

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last year i started chatting to a married guy on another site he said he had never been with another guy or tv cd but had thought about it lots

Any way after chatting for a few weeks i asked him if he wanted to meet me as my family were going away for a week at first he said he could not get away so i gave him my number and we chatted on the phone it was a Friday night the first night on my own was dressed fully made up wig the works i told him i was going to go out in car when dark he asked where so i told him a lane near where i live was quiet and unused when dark, had just parked up when my phone rang it was martin martin he said would it be ok if he came to see me i was gagging to be with a guy so he turned up a parked a bit away from me so i walked over he was a nice looking guy i opened the door he looked at me and said hello i got in we were chatting and getting along fine as we were chatting i held his hand and placed it on my stocking thigh he took a deep breath and started to stroke my inner thigh he said it was years since he had stroked a stocking thigh i said it felt nice and moved closer to him so his hand went further up my thigh my cock was getting hard in my satin panties i slid my hand between his thighs and started to stroke his now bulging pants he was very hard we were not chatting now just feeling each others cock i undid his trouser belt and he slid his pants and under pants down was wanking his cock slowly he was he was dribbling pre cum i lent in further and went down on him and licked the pre cum off his bell end then kissed him full on the lips slipping my wet pre cum tongue between his lips he held me tight kissing me hard and and passionately i was wanking him hard now he was now feeling my balls and cock as we kissed i pulled away and said can i suck you he just nodded so down i went sucking and licking in seconds he came full in my mouth 2 hot and gorgeous streams of spunk i lifted my head up and said well how was that he smiled and said the best feeling ever my cock was sticking out as he had been wanking me as we were kissing i sat back and pulled my skirt up he was stroking my thigh we started kissing again said to him suck me please he said ok so he went down on me sucking his first cock it was very nice came for him he swallowed every drop and said it was good i said if we had been at my place i would have liked him to fuck me he said can i come to yours tomorrow i said god yes we kissed and left the next day he came to mine in the afternoon his wife was out shopping after a brief chat and kissing session i took him up to my bed undressed to my black satin basque suspender belt black sheer stockings he was looking and trying to get undressed i laid him on the bed sat on top of him his cock was hard and rubbing my ass as we kissed i was kissing his neck and said i want you inside me love he said will we be safe i said yes darling dont worry with that i reached for the tube of lube i squeezed a good dollop of it in to my hand and wanked his cock with it then some more on my hole i lifted myself up held his hard cock let it feel my hole he was saying god yes please i slowly let my self down on his cock he was breathing hard as i took him fully in me i started to rock on him grinding my ass hard down on him then i lent forward and was kissing him it was gorgeous knowing i had a womans husband deep in me and saying he was cumming i was riding him for all i was worth when he was holding my thighs as he spunked hard and long feeling his hot spunk fill me was amazing he relaxed and i was still sitting on his cock we both started to laugh i said was it good he said better than with the wife we laid in bed all afternoon kissing and sucking each other he sucked me off twice without batting an eye lid after sucking me off i was on my back i told him to lift my legs over his shoulders and slid his hard shaft in me i was saying fuck me hard and deep he was pounding my ass fast i was hanging on to the bed rail as he fucked me saying my name as he spunked in me again told him to keep going not to pull out he was fucking me so good i came myself spurting my girly cum over my suspender belt and bra to my amazement he lent forward and licked it all off me my legs were now around his waist as he kissed me letting my own cum run into my mouth god did i feel like a dirty bitch now he stayed with me till about 7.30 we met every Saturday afternoon at his place of work his work shop he even bought a bed for us to fuck in also took me away for the weekend to Amsterdam as Angela when we were there went in all the gay bars and clubs as a couple he loved every second of it we were together for about 6 month,s i had turned a married guy to a bisexual must admit he was great at sucking cock oh and wow what a fuck he was

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By *oredEric  (M) 48 weeks ago

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Nice Angela very sexy.

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By *issyslut24  (M) 47 weeks ago

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My first was a married older man, I used to dress up in his wife's clothes when he fucked me. Massive cock, heavy cummer and I mean heavy! Probably why I need big cocks now and lots of cum.

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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago

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I am married and love my wife but I have always loved cock and taking cock in my ass, though I am married I classify myself as gay is that wrong

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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago

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Well this is certainly an eye opener. Didn't realise it was so widespread....though I was one of the few lol.

I have been married forever and although I love my wife, am happy with married life, I have to agree with most of the sentiments on here that men need more sex than women.

Gay/Bi/Curious? Not quite sure where I lie in that category. I don't fancy men in the slightest. I don't look at men and think, "Cor, he's sexy" and I don't have any desires to want to kiss men. I DO WITH WOMEN! However, I do love to play with men. I love wanking them and making them cum, love having them shoot their load over me and adore feeling a stiff cock in my arse. Does that make me bi?

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By *elano Jones  (M) 46 weeks ago

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As the initiator to this String of Posts it doesn't surprise me in the least that there are so many Married Guys enjoying Gay/Bi Sex. I know for me I could never cheat on my Mrs with another women but I try and justify that by having sex with a guy is acceptable because there is no baggage and it is simple Sex with both guys or more knowing what they want. I realise that might be hypocritical to some but it works for me. Sex at home dried up years ago and I am highly sexed. Used to always Top then went totally bottom and now happy to Flip. If there is anyone in Manchester who fancies some fun get in touch. Cheers.

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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago

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i don`t think it matter what you lable yourself as long as you n your partner enjoy it that is a bonus

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*ordic-knight By *ordic-knight   premium paying member (M) 46 weeks ago

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"Well this is certainly an eye opener. Didn't realise it was so widespread....though I was one of the few lol.

I have been married forever and although I love my wife, am happy with married life, I have to agree with most of the sentiments on here that men need more sex than women.

Gay/Bi/Curious? Not quite sure where I lie in that category. I don't fancy men in the slightest. I don't look at men and think, "Cor, he's sexy" and I don't have any desires to want to kiss men. I DO WITH WOMEN! However, I do love to play with men. I love wanking them and making them cum, love having them shoot their load over me and adore feeling a stiff cock in my arse. Does that make me bi?"

You fall somewhere in that very wide spectrum of being bi.

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By *AVE4455   premium paying member (M) 46 weeks ago

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I like being fucked even tho only 8 timed ... am married but love cock lol

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*hickmeatmilker By *hickmeatmilker  (M) 45 weeks ago

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married too..same feed back..love to suck and share a guys cock..love them

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*hickmeatmilker By *hickmeatmilker  (M) 45 weeks ago

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nice thread delanio...

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*hickmeatmilker By *hickmeatmilker  (M) 45 weeks ago

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love to see a guy cum...with a woman you dont or is it just me..

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By *im999  (M) 45 weeks ago

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As a married man I can't really agree with the theory that guys go with guys because it's easier than finding a willing woman looking for a one off. You either like cock or you don't.

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

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i have read most of these posts, i understand where you are cumming from . But i still see my self so different . yes ill say im gay, as i love sex with men , but certain conditions . i started to dress at a young age. But had normal relationships. well may be not normal. marrage , spit, dress, another woman marrage , another failure . Kids with both, but i was the cheat. Not 1 man. But on and off dressed. Both wifes loved Sex with me dressed. Then i decided to be f/time lady. Then sex wth men started. Never been lucky enough to have on just drop on to me random tho.

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By *obbie51   profile verified by photo (M) 45 weeks ago

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"Well this is certainly an eye opener. Didn't realise it was so widespread....though I was one of the few lol.

I have been married forever and although I love my wife, am happy with married life, I have to agree with most of the sentiments on here that men need more sex than women.

Gay/Bi/Curious? Not quite sure where I lie in that category. I don't fancy men in the slightest. I don't look at men and think, "Cor, he's sexy" and I don't have any desires to want to kiss men. I DO WITH WOMEN! However, I do love to play with men. I love wanking them and making them cum, love having them shoot their load over me and adore feeling a stiff cock in my arse. Does that make me bi?"

Your post could have been written about me. Like you, I don't fancy men so kissing them doesn't do anything for me. I'll wank/suck a cock and hopefully feel a cock up my ass soon but that's my limit. I'll let a guy kiss/suck/lick my body, cum over me but I think that is down to me simply enjoying sex with men.

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By *ceptic50  (M) 45 weeks ago

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I agree with many on this forum in the fact that they don't fancy men, but like what they have, namely a nice hard cock. I am not into kissing either, but if the guy is nice and clean I don't mind it as long as the end result is his cock in my mouth. I suppose I could be a cock worshipper, lol

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By *issile  (TV/TS/CD) 45 weeks ago

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Me too I dont fancy men but I love giving satisfaction and making them cum, just adore lovely smooth feminine tvs.

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*tsuptous By *tsuptous  (M) 45 weeks ago

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Hi guys, I have never been married new from a young age I was gay. Lost my partner (male) few years back to cancer.

We all have needs and I do miss cock any married, bi, gay. need some fun

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

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Similar too. Love my wife & kids but also discreet cock lover.

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

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Same here. Married. Sex stopped a while ago. Love the mrs and kids but love being a bottom bear too. Accom is ok sometimes cos mrs works when I don't.

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By *issile  (TV/TS/CD) 45 weeks ago

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I think it is a very simple thing for most of us married guys, sexual releif. Its OK for the gobbers to shout off about sort your marriage and leave your wife that all becomes very complicated when all that is needed is a little physical contact with someone and hopefully empty your ball bag.

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

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Agreed that is so true!

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By *limguy.69  (M) 42 weeks ago

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I have been married for a number of years and although I love my wife, am happy with married life, I have to agree with most of the sentiments on here that men need more sex than women.

Gay, bi or, just curious? Well I made my move and have tried it. I don't look at guys and think, "nice, he's a hunk" However, I do love playing with men, kinky men. I love wanking them and making them cum, love having them shoot their load over me and adore feeling a stiff cock in my butt.

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By *utored   profile verified by photo (M) 40 weeks ago

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My wife remains very sexy and very active. We have a great time. But there is something quite beautiful kissing and loving a man who holds your balls just right and whose Cock you can stroke in a way that delights him. His cry, or my cry, of pure sexual delight as one of us cums deep in the other. Oh yes, and the peaceful and blissful delight as the 'top' lapses into a post coital sleep as his balls are gently cradled by his 'bottom'.

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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago

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i felt the same when i hit 42. have kissed and sucked a couple of guys and feel much more natural /sexy with a guy

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By *azy  (M) 40 weeks ago

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We all have a slightly different story. After being married for umpteen years, I still have sex with my wife most days. But in all that time she has never had an orgasm or responded sexually. Tried to get her to go to sex therapist but she refused.

Don't often get the opportunity to meet guys but love it when my actions or arse gives an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago

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Was married but trying to get a fuck from her was impossible. When I did fuck her it kept the reigns on my bi side. But as sex with her grew less and less I started looking for cock I never looked back. It was great to come home and see her sitting there knowing that I just had another man's spunk in my mouth

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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago

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First sexual experiences were as as a teenager with a male schoolfriend, there was no attraction between us just need for sex, and it was great sex but we lost touch when went off to university. Years later married and with two kids there's no sex in our relationship so seek men for sex. Do I fancy men, no its purely for physicasphysicasl side of sex, and find gay sex so much better. The men I've met I wouldn't find attractive or a turn on if I met them in the street, but when they're naked and I'm sucking their cock they make me very horny.

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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago

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Yes I think that sex for me is just a functional need and gay and bi men will just have sex with very little if any conversations. Cottaging was awesome for me daily visits sometimes several visits; glory holes under wall wNks sucks even fucks, multiple gripes in darker toilets even groups watching and indulging. Gay sites these days as cottaging all but gone. Not as often but ok

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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago

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For me I had a bit of a play in my Teens, just wanking and sucking and be fucked with my best two mates. When my mates fucked me first time I could stop was wanted and wanted more they used me like slut in all positions we learned a lot together . I played with them 8years once or more time in week. I was meeting single men's sometimes is well. Then settled down got married had the kids etc. But still can't forget sex with men's I like to have fun sometimes,but it's very hard to found somebody.

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By *ecret_crowds  (M) 38 weeks ago

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I myself am married, and have always had a bi side to my sexuality, so I still fantasise about being with a man. I do sometimes get too scared about doing anything about it because of the fear of catching anything etc etc, but the thought of being with another guy turns me on so much. Had a couple of experiences in the past too.

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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago

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I am married but like to explore my bi side. I find fun with men can be so much better as men tend not to be so inhibited. Had some fun with men years ago then got married so it stopped, however have rekindled that interest in the last few years. I find sucking cock so satisfying and kissing men tends to be more passionate, sucking tounge. I also like to taste male cum.

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*iScott By *iScott   profile verified by photo (M) 4 weeks ago

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SNAP; and there are many of us

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By *i husband  (M) 2 weeks ago

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Yes I'm totally with you.... Very similar, married over twenty years now, still have sex with the wife probably once a month but wank almost daily watching bi-sex porn..... So decided to give it a go and found out I really like it...... Can't wait to try it again.

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By *12172  (M) 2 weeks ago

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Am also in the same boat. Met a guy once years ago after deciding I needed to see what it would actually be like to be naked with another guy. Now I'm waiting for my next experience..

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