"I was lucky, the first two times I went to a sauna a gay reg m8 took me there and told me what to do. It was in Mansfield and there were at least 15 guys around. Everyone was naked most of the time, There was public sucking and fucking, or you could go into private rooms. Guys regularly reached over to play with me ( and vice versa)Generally we were all there for the same reason. One very fat guy came onto me and I said no thanks, there was no problem with that.
Generally it is a great place to spend all day , or just an hour in "